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November 18, 2012
O Lord bless Ray Meyer.& Jim and Erma McKee.
And bless families of them both & those who knew them. From:
student of 1..
son of 2.
better man cuz of all
Rest You All Thank You
jamie mckee
June 29, 2010
Joey,
I miss coach so much, but I miss you more.
Love, Dennis Mcguire
April 7, 2010
hampton
April 7, 2010
I attended Coach Meyer's Summer Camp and he always was encouraging us to be the best we could be. I remember he called me "whitey" because of my blond hair. He inspired me and taught me valuable lessons - self-motivation & confidence. These lessons I have carried with me though out my life. He will be very much missed but I know he will be coaching again and will continue to inspire individuals. He was quite a human being. My sympathy and best wishes to Joey and the rest of the Meyer family. God bless.
Bob Sandstrom
March 16, 2010
Dear Mr. Meyer's family, please accept my warmest sympathies and be comforting knowing Almighty God is "near to those that are broken at heart and those who are crushed in spirit he saves" (Psalm 34:18). He can give us power beyond what is normal to go on from one day to the next (2 Corin. 4:7).
September 3, 2009
It's only now that I have learned of the passing of a great Coach, great family man, and great "father" to many, many who attended the Ray Meyer Boys Camp for so many years.
It is only now that, belatedly, I send my condolences and best wishes to Joey and the rest of the Meyer family.
Although some 50 years have passed, I remember fondly the 3 summers spent with Coach Ray, Joey, the Meyer family and others. Basketball was, and was never to be my forte, but the lessons learned from Coach were well taught and remembered to this day.
It's a shame I never knew that much about him. Oddly, I was blessed to follow in his footsteps in attending and graduating from Notre Dame. Who could have known that Coach would be the first ND Alum I would ever meet, at the age of 6!
I remember well the swims, the canteen, and of course the Bug Juice of daily life at the Camp. And the profound spiritual and moral guidance and wisdom of everyday life which was just as much a part of the Camp experience.
Coach Ray, God bless you always as you continue your wise counsel to all the many boys - and men - who have made it there to heaven with you!
Greg Henry
July 14, 2009
Dear Tommy, Joey, 'Binky', and sisters-
My most sincere condolences to you for your loss.
Your dad and you all gave me and many others great memories. Names like Tom Evans and the Howlett brothers came back to me as well - always with a smile.
It was at Ray Meyer's Boys Camp where I learned that I'd never amount to much of a baketball layer, but, that I loved the game and loved to watch good teams compete.
Your dad was a lasting example to me -like once when some older guys were 'terrorizing' some younger campers. He showed me that we all have responsibilities to others - and his example was one I'll not forget.
I hope wherever this message finds you, that you are well and in good spirits.
My life is better for having had met and worked for "Coach Meyer".
An Old RMBC Camper,
Fred Mueller
Fred Mueller
November 5, 2008
The best summers of my life were spent in Three Lakes learning about hoops and life from Coach. A great man gone but not forgotten.
Jeff (JP) Pawlowski
October 8, 2008
Coach I miss when you read to me when I couldn't sleep and how you didn't get mad at me when I wet my pants at your camp. Thanks so much miss you Sam
Sam Manella
July 16, 2008
Coach Ray's deep religous faith inspired me to follow my heart after playing for coach in the late 70's.
IT's not the end will meet again at the fesival of freinds
Reverend Tom Barr Catholic Preist
July 16, 2008
I went to coach ray's camp for 5 years. I was never good at basketball but coach told me to follow my heart of being a cowboy and did , Thank You Coach
Buckey Goldstein
July 15, 2008
Live fast and die laughing! That's what Ray Meyer told me at his basketball camp. Those were great words.
Dale Earnhardt
July 27, 2007
The game of basketball will never see another one like Ray Meyer. How lucky the city of Chicago was to have such an icon at DePaul. He was such a big man in all areas of his life.
Becky Smith
July 23, 2007
coach
i met you in 1968 when you brought your team to niagara u to play.i remember standing there,and knowing that there was alot of talent on the floor,i still was more impressed with you. i played freshman ball for nu,as back in the day freshman could not play varsity. god bless you
len caprisecca
July 8, 2007
For a great man who dared to step out and give young black men from chicago to play at Depaul taking the team down in history
william jerry
June 30, 2007
Dear Meyer family,
I´m interseted in sending my kids to summer camp, and remembering two incredible summers I spend with my brothers at "Ray Meyers Boys Camp", in the early 70s, I wondered if the camp was still running.
I'm sad to hear Mr. Meyer died.
Spending those summers with him and family has been an experience I have always remember with great joy. Those were the good times!
He treated us as his very own sons, caring much about us, the only mexicans in camp.
I remember Joe his son, Bear, Dee Dee and his other grand daughter whose name I forgot.
It was a real honor to cross in my life with Mr Meyer, a very simple, happy, enthusiastic, paternal great man.
God bless you all.
Sincerly,
Eduardo Odriozola
June 7, 2007
Thanks for those nine Fifties summers, Coach!
Parle
February 19, 2007
I loved Ray Meyer he was my favorite basketball coach. One of the greatest things I ever saw was after the St. Joe game when they were upset. I was sick to my stomach and Ray was interviewed right after the game and I know if I was feeling the way I was he was feeling a lot worse and he said the sun will come up tomorrow. I will never forget him making me feel a little beter. What a great coach but even a better man. One of the Greatest.
Jay Troyer
February 14, 2007
Thanks for everything Coachy! Much love...
Jon Harris
November 27, 2006
I just said a prayer for Ray.......
........post Thanksgiving b-ball always makes me think about DePaul........and "uncle" Ray.....
.....Class act...........great soul...... 'nuf said....
richie .......fan
Richie Manderfeld
November 3, 2006
Coach, may God bless you and keep you.
Jim Mangan
September 7, 2006
To The Meyer Family: We are saddened for your loss. Ray Meyer did a brilliant job as a College Basketball Coach for the better part of forty years. He was second to none in the college world -- especially at DePaul. Even if the Blue Demons made it to the Final Four just once in the last thirty years or so, his squads from previous years were well-coached and well-disciplined on a consistent basis. He was larger than life at DePaul. He maintained a strong fiber of character and leadership at DePaul. His 1981 and 1982 teams -- by far -- were definitely the best squads that DePaul University maintained in the Ray Meyer Era. Need I Say More? Thanks!!
Eric Ellis
June 24, 2006
He was like a father to me. I always received new converse with the team every year from about age 8 until 16, I had BIG feet.
He thought I was going to really tall and wanted me to play with him but I stopped growing at age 14, 6'3".
I just heard today of his death and I am very saddened I could not go to DePaul to attend his funeral.
My mom working at Roma's for many years and the Meyer family will always be in my memories.
Levi Patrick II
Levi@TheITDoctor.com
Levi Patrick II
May 29, 2006
Ray Meyer was a classy man and coach. He always seemed to be in a good mood. He always had time to do interviews and talk with the fans. De Paul fans and the city will miss him. May he rest in peace.
Dan Bacone
May 12, 2006
My deepest sympathy to the Meyer family,My dad,Bato Govedarica was coahed by Ray and a De Paul Hall of Famer as well,and inducted in Illinois's Basketball Hall of Fame.Dad is being inducted into the Chicago Public High School Hall of Fame tomorrow and was voted one of the top 50B~ball players to ever come out of Chicago thanks to coach. My nephew wil except on his behalf with my Mom present.I know Coach would have been there with his great big smile I remember so well. Sadly,Coach and Dad are both in Heaven's Basketball Hall of fame. Dad sadly passed away 5 days before Coach and I can't tell you all the great stories of the days at De Paul Dad tolf me about and hard they trained and it paid off he was a great father and it was an honor to be his daughter and I'm proud to have called him Dad he was so devoted to his family always helped people and I try to be like Dad everyday of my life.Dad learned quite a lot from Coach as Dad lost his father at 3 years old so Coach was in a lot of ways a mentor and fine tuned dad's game and made him very displined as person.An athlete until shortly before his passing and a great golfer. I loved watching sports with Dad the last few year's living with him I learned so much from him and like everyone always wanted to be in his company.Dad admired your father so much the training he gave him and Dad passed it on to my sister, brother,and I.The love,and memories are what carry us through and all the great time's and I will never forget your Mom & Dad at our house at our annual Slava telling me how great dad was with the basketball and as a person. I would talk every year with him and he always said "Your Dad had such flair and charisma like no other player I coached" I worked for Dad and I loved when people would come in to his office and say they used to watch Dad play at De Paul there faces would light up as they described his ball handling and manuever's. Everyday is a true gift may you have strength from his love and wonderful memories of all the days of his life.May he rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Dane'
DaneG30@AOL.COM
Dane' Govedarica
April 19, 2006
Hey Everyone
I remember not more than 6 or 7 years ago when i went to Ray Meyer's basketball and I had a great time doing all the drills running around the foorball poles doing stretches right after breakfast I greatly miss that camp and after I was done with his station Coach pull me aside and said "your gonna be something special you ugly little rascal and when you do you come back to visit" it was the second to last secession that Coach ever had I never came back to visit so this is my way of coming back to visit sorry I did't come back earlier Coach I MISS YOU
Edmund Jefferson
April 5, 2006
Nice testamony
Bruce Piepho
April 1, 2006
Barbara, Tom, Pat, Joey and Bob, Thank you for sharing you Dad with us! A beautiful man with and absolutely beautiful family. What a gift!!! You are in my prayers.
Dawn Gasior
March 31, 2006
In so many ways Coach, you reminded me of my late father. You showed us so much about life by the way that you handled winning and loosing, and how to treat others. We will never forget you. Thank you.
Kevin Cunningham
March 29, 2006
To a great family friend and mentor to us all. Ray, thanks for helping making my uncle his best.Also just thanks for being part of our family. Miss you deepley Ray !!!
Charles Mikan
March 27, 2006
Ray of Hope
by: Jasmine Haynes Cummings
He was a ray of hope for Chicago,
A ray of light for all to see.
Keeping that unique smile,
Unaware that all the while,
He was the type of person we all strove to be.
Just being in his presence, for those of us blessed to be in,
His wisdom, his stories, more than all of his glories,
Made one honored to call him a friend.
The Lord made us all for a purpose,
And Coach’s purpose was so clear to me;
For no one could inspire, like our “Coach” Ray Meyer,
Our friend through eternity.
March, 2006
Jasmine L.Cummings
March 26, 2006
some of the best memories I have as a youngster were my two trips with my triplet brothers to Coach's summer camp in Wisconsin. I can still hear Coach screaming "pick and roll" and I can remember working the three man weave at Coach's court. I also remember how kind and generous Coach was after he left DePaul whenever I saw him. He was and always will be an inspiration to me.
Brian Schiewe
March 26, 2006
As a former summer camper, I extend my sincere condolences to the Meyer family.
Jon Savin
March 25, 2006
I loved watching Ray Meyers' mens basketball team play. he was a great coach and man, a real chicago guy. He will be missed.
joe peterson
March 25, 2006
Dear Suzannie, My deapest sympathy to you and all of your family. Your grandfather was a wonderful man and I know how much he meant to you. Please know you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Your friend always, Tarzanna
Lisa Kuchar
March 24, 2006
Coach - thanks so much for the memories you helped us create.
Lynn & Bo
Jim & Lynn Bocinsky
March 24, 2006
Dear Coach,
Thank you for being the best a man can be!
To the Meyer family,
Coach will always be in my heart and memory as a gentle, loving and cuddable person.
He'd always have a kind and encouraging word for me while I worked out by myself at Alumni Hall during my years at De Paul trying to get into soccer shape each spring and fall.
God Bless and Godspeed,
Debbie Dakouzlian
(Class of 1980)
Debbie Dakouzlian
March 24, 2006
To the Meyer Family,
Sending you all the love and prayers from one of Coach's earliest players. Your Dad coached me when I was in 7th and 8th grade at St. Agatha and he was in high school.His influence and guidance stayed with me from St. Pat's to DePaul where I graduated and played 4 years of basketball,graduating the year before he arrived at DePaul.
I kept in contact with him over the years,and currently I'm a resident at the"Villa" in Wheeling, used to see him at Mass everyday and just recently visited him in his room.
God Bless to him and your family.
Jim "Jimmy" Skrodzki
DePaul Class of 1941
Jim Skrodzki
March 24, 2006
Dear Coach Tom,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Thinking of you, and may his memory live on in you and your entire family.
Take care,
Mariann
Mariann Janessa Hunter
March 23, 2006
I happened to be in Three Lakes at my parents when my uncle called and told us that Ray Meyer died. The news saddened me, but also brought back a lot of great memories. From meeting his family while working at camp,watching him throw mail and smashing packages, dumping knuckleheads when they were tubing, becoming impatient when things in Three Lakes weren't done as fast as they would be in Chicago, to performing on camps version of Putting on the Lips when it rained, I will never forget my experiences at camp. There will always be a special place in my heart for "Coach" and I will never forget him or his family. Thanks for the memories and the honor of knowing you and the members of your family that came up to camp. You will certainly be missed.
Amy Flannery-Lawrynk
alawrynk@charter.net
Amy Flannery-Lawrynk
March 23, 2006
DEAR MEYER FAMILY:
I AM A MEMBER OF THE COMMUNITY OF SAINT CECILIA IN MOUNT PROSPECT, AND IT WAS ALWAYS GREAT TO SEE THE COACH AT MASS. JOEY WAS INDEED CORRECT IN NOTING THAT THE COACH WOULD BE REMEMBERED MORE FOR THE WONDERFUL PERSON HE WAS THAN HIS GREATNESS AS A COACH. HE WAS MY INSPIRATION AT THE 9 A.M. SUNDAY MASS ALONG WITH FATHER GEHLEN AND FATHER TAPPER. MAY YOU FIND COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT HE IS ONCE AGAIN WITH YOUR BELOVED MOTHER.
IN GRATITUDE FOR THE LIFE OF RAY MEYER.
RICK WALLS
RICK WALLS
March 23, 2006
Coach, Tom It was great to see you at your dad's wake. I remember in 76 when he would come to OPRF and scout your team I remeber how kind he was to the team manager and how he told me look over you.as the losses were too hard on you. Well I can say without hesitation you were blessed to have your Dad and he tought you and your brothers and sisters well as you All have his quality of reaching out and taking time for people.
Kevin Whalen
March 23, 2006
Tom, Bucko, Johnny, Tommy & Christine,
Our deepest sympathy go out to you and your family. We
are so honored that we were able to meet such a Great Man.
He lived a full and unbelievable life.
Love, The Dwyer's
Kimberly Dwyer
March 22, 2006
I am truly saddened by the loss of "Coach". He was an incredible man who was truly down to earth. I spent two summers at his basketball camp in Wisconsin and he was a joy to be around and he was very funny. Lots of good one liners about me and my ego. I still remember him and that time there and what a great man he was.
Lou Tenore
March 22, 2006
Dear Meyer Family:
I just had to write to let you know how sorry I am about the passing of your wonderful father.
In the late 80's, my husband had been out of a job, and I wrote to your father, and said that I could tell from his eyes that he was a kind man, and wondered if he could help my husband find a job. The day he called to make an appointment to meet with my husband, for me, was a miracle in itself. He gave my husband several contacts, and with his support, this story does have a happy ending.
May the entire Meyer Family find peace during this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Carol J.Layman
Carol Layman
March 22, 2006
To the family,
Ray was a friend and a classmate of my husband's (Hank Pojman) at Notre Dame. My condolences.
Helen Pojman
March 22, 2006
Coach was a great man. He was always willing to help the young coaches on their way up the coaching ladder. In the early seventies he gave my ST. Xavier teams the memory of a life time by giving us a chace to play DePaul at Alumni Hall. I also had the privilege of coaching in an all star game with Coach Ray. A great coach , a great father, and a great man. Chicago basketball lays to rest a great legend.
I cherish the autographed Ray Meyer picture that hangs in my office.
May Coach rest in peace.
Bob Hallberg
March 22, 2006
To the Starzyk, Meyer, Butterfield, and McGowan Families,
My prayers and best wishes are with you as you grieve the loss of your father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. It's hard...but Marge and Dee Dee have welcomed him home.
Patti Guare
March 22, 2006
It was very sad when I received the news that Chicago icon Ray Meyer had passed away. I had the opportunity to meet him about 8 years ago, he was very kind in allowing me to take a picture with him. I will never forget all of the great memories that he provided all of us growing up while leading DePaul to national prominence. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Meyer family during this time.
Dino Tiberi
March 22, 2006
The Coach touched so so many people in a positive way, his "family" was Chicago. He was a grandfather to us ALL.The most decent and down to earth man I ever met in my life. He truly gave of himself to evryone, God Bless him!!
len locascio
March 22, 2006
Dear Bucko and Tom and entire Meyer Family
So sorry to hear about your dad as Ed and the boys were at the Depaul vs ND game in Jan and saw him in the stands. Hopefully he didn't suffer. We're sorry we could not make the wake or funeral, we sure would have been there, but we were out of town. We just came back from Tucson, AZ we were attending the White Sox Spring Training Camp and we attended the White Sox vs Cubs game last Sat, Mar 18th and before the game the announcer paid tribute to your dad and announced to the whole stadium, approx 12,000 people, "A Moment of Silence for a Great Man/Coach that the city of Chicago lost." It was very special and respectful moment, with all the Chicago fans there and some not aware that he died. There were alot of sighs! So he is nationally mourned and will be missed by so many, but what a legacy and fond memories we have of him too. Our son Mike attended his camp and Brian attended DePaul and still enjoy DePaul games each season. Sorry for your major loss, but just letting you know our thoughts are with your entire family.
Ed & Mary Ann Martin
March 22, 2006
Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Ray Meyer family. Coach was such a great man that he will never be forgotten by anyone he touched. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless- Jim and Dena Babicki
James and Dena Babicki
March 22, 2006
Ray was a great coach and a very fine man.
We loved him dearly.
We will miss him at the Hall of Fame in Springfield where we would see him every year.
love,
Arilee Pollard
(wife of the late Jim Pollard who played for Stanford and the Minneapolis Lakers)
Arilee Pollard
March 22, 2006
Over thirty years ago, I was lucky enough to be chosen as a walk-on player for DePaul. I had the opportunity to be in the gym with Coach Ray every day for an entire season. Watching him teach, motivate, and inspire players was very special. It was incredible how much he cared about eveyone.
Coach Ray helped so many people over the years, on and off the court, one person at a time, never in too big a hurry. Thanks Coach for taking the time to help me.
My condolences to the Meyer family.
Ted Z
March 22, 2006
I may not have gone to DePaul, or personally known Coach Meyer, or even seen him coach in person, but all the memories that I've seen on TV or in the newspaper or other media outlets tell me that Ray Meyer was a staple in Chicago and the NCAA. He will be sorely missed.
Sheel Shah
March 22, 2006
I truly enjoyed meeting Coach Ray during camp in Wisconsin. The first year Coach Joe ran the camp because Ray's wife passed away and the next Ray was there. Not only did they teach us about basketball but they taught us about working hard to achieve. Joey threw a ball at my head and Coach Ray made us do 5 man weave until everyone got it right, 45 minutes past lunch, but it was well worth it! I wish my kids could have such an opportunity it was very special!!! God Bless!
Bob Haskin
March 22, 2006
Coach, Thank you for the best five summers of my life. Every year I looked forward to spending a week at Three Lakes. I'll always remember the sign to the camp said "Boy's Camp" and that says it all. You let us have fun all the while teaching us more basketball in that one week than we would ever be able to get from anywhere else in a lifetime. Spending every meal with you for that week was special when you would announce the movie of the night or when you would take all of us tubing with your boat. All of it will remain as my fondest memories of growing up.
Jeff Heidel
March 22, 2006
Thanks Coach for the pleasant memories we have of you coaching the DePaul Blue Demons! Our sincere sympathy to Joey and your family members. Rest in Peace.
Barb & Tom Marvel
March 22, 2006
In 1993, I was a freshman Cross Country runner at DePaul, and not exactly setting records. One day, Coach Meyer came through while we were stretching, and of course everyone knew who he was - except me. Still, he took the time to stop and speak to me, asked a couple of questions about how my season was going, offered some encouragement, and went off with a smile. To this day, I tell people about that moment. More than anything, it was this genuine interest in the lives of people with whom he had contact that I will always remember and admire. Thanks, Coach.
Andrew Ogrin
March 21, 2006
Coach, thank-you for the Basketball memories and the inspirations that you gave me to become a College basketball player. Again, thank-you.
Lester Paige
March 21, 2006
Coach, I have fond memories of going to the early days of DePaul Basketball games with my dad. He had worked at DePaul and I believe was part of the DePaul family. We would not miss a season even in the tough years of few wins. Alumni Hall games will always provide great memories. One of my best summers was at the Three Lakes basketball camp during the mid 70's during DePaul's better basketball years. My prays are with your family.
Hoefler Family
Robert Hoefler
March 21, 2006
I was injured in an accident last June and was sent in July to the Anchorage Nursing and Rehab Center in Bensenville where I had the privilege of knowing Ray and meeting some of his family. He was a wonderful sportsman loved to talk of sports of all kinds and he was always energetic in his recuperative efforts following his surgeries. The world will miss him as a sportsman, I will miss him as a friend.
William McCall
March 21, 2006
My Father, sister, and I are all DePaul Graduates. We loved attending the Blue Demon games and felt honored and proud when Coach took us to the final 4 in 1979! I remember seeing Coach at the old Alumni Hall during P. E. courses. He always had a kind word and even autographed a D.P.U. basketball poster for my father. I would like to extend my condolences to the family, and say thank you for the memories and joy that you brought to us. M. Preib Class of 1981.
Michael "Mike" Preib
March 21, 2006
My family and I express our deepest sympathy and condolences to the family. Coach Meyer offered me a scholorship after I played for Amundsen High in the 40's. He was very sincere and really cared about his players.
Sincerely,
Wally Osterkorn
Wally Osterkorn
March 21, 2006
My sincere condolences to the Meyer family; It was a true privilege to have known your legendary Dad. What a role model he was for everyone he met. I remember many great times that I was in the company of this man and have always been thankful for the encouragement he gave me when I began my coaching career. He was a famous Maguire Universty member. You will continue to be an influence Ray because you have touched so many. Rest in peace and enjoy your reunion with Marge. Joe Gubbins
Joe Gubbins
March 21, 2006
Coach Meyer was a great man, who cared for his family, friends, players and everyone he met. He is in Heaven now looking out for all of us. Tom Rockwell and Family
Tom Rockwell
March 21, 2006
Coach Tom Meyers:
Our deepest sympathy on the passing of your father. He must have been a wonderful person, because the apple does not fall far from the tree! Thank you for all your guidance, and coaching abilities.
Ryan and Michael Wherfel
March 21, 2006
I wrote a minute ago how Ray always reminded me of my wonderful Father...but I forgot to mention they also both had that unforgettable smile,with the gap between the front teeth.......rest in peace to both of you........the greatest generation is just about gone.....and its sad to say,none of us are as good...
terry mcgowan
March 21, 2006
A wonderful man,he always reminded me of my Dad,born about a year apart,both loved sports,both as kind and sweet as could be,and both had a beloved wife named Marge.The city lost another piece of itself that cant be filled.Best wishes to the family,and thanx Coach Ray...
terry mcgowan
March 21, 2006
Thank you coach
Peter G McKenna
March 21, 2006
I grew up in Chicago and became a fan of the college game as the result of the DePaul teams of the mid 70's that included Norwood, Garland, Ponsetto and Corzine. While I never met Coach Meyer, he has always stood out in my mind as a great man. I think Joey said it best, for all of Ray Meyers accomplishemnts on the basketball court, he will be remembered most, not for basketball, but for the type of person he was. Rest in peace Coach, you've earned it.
Darryl Parker
March 21, 2006
DEAR PATTY AND FAMILY,
I TAUGHT YOU AND MARIANNE AT ST. CATHERINE SCHOOL IN 8TH GRADE. I WELL REMEMBER YOUR FATHER AT THE PARENT TEACHER CONFERENCES. HE WAS A GENTLE AND SOFT -SPOKEN MAN.
MY PARENTS MOVED TO THREE LAKES FOR THEIR RETIREMENT YEARS. MY MOM WAS A VOLUNTEER NEWSPAPER CORRESPONDENT AMONG OTHER VOLUNTEER MEDIAS(RADIO,TV ETC.). MOM INTERVIEWED YOUR DAD. WHEN SHE ARRIVED HOME, SHE HAD NOTHING BUT COMPLIMENTS.
PRAYERS AND SYMPATHY,
SISTER CELESTE NOW SISTER RITA
SISTER RITA CORKERY,R.S.M.
March 21, 2006
I went to his camp for two summers. I will always remember him popping my blisters and then putting some iodine on them. I couldnt believe that someone like him was doing this for me. I also remember him jokingly calling me a drip ball jerk when telling me to come up front to choose a team. Great guy.
Paul Handley
March 21, 2006
COACH YOU WERE A SPECIAL PERSON WHO CHANGED MANY LIVES THAT YOU NEVER NEW EVERY TIME I SAW YOU COACH I WAS HONORD TO WATCH THE MASTER AT WORK YOU NEVER THOUGHT YOU WERE BIGGER THAN THE GAME YOU DID IT THE RIGHT WAY I WILL NEVER FORGET THE SMILE AND THE ROSE AND YOU ALWAYS HAD TIME FOR THE LITTLE GUY YOU MADE EVERYBODY FEEL IMPORTANT AT THE TIME GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY MAYBE ONE DAY I CAN PLAY FOR YOU COACH AND THIS TIME WE WILL WIN IT ALL ,MY KIDS WILL KNOW WHO COACH REY MEYER WAS AND THERE KIDS WILL KNOW TOO JIM NAYLOR
jimmy naylor
March 21, 2006
God Bless Coach Meyer. I will never forget growing up and being riveted to the TV with my dad watching DePaul play Notre Dame, Marquette, UCLA, etc in what seemed like every weekend on national TV. The games were great, but we were watching because of Coach Meyer.
Silvano Parducci
March 21, 2006
To the coach's family, what a guy. On saturdays the coach would come in for a car wash and visit with my uncle.When I was home from college that was one of my jobs was to give the works. In my freshman year of college I when on my first trip to 3lakes to deliver "Marge's Barge". What an adventure. Binky took us around in his fast boat. The coach always wanted to know how is was doing in school and he always had good things to say about St.Mary's. He was everybody's coach and we all learned from him. Coach say hi to Charlie and dad for me. God bless you and your family.
Bob Stapleton
March 21, 2006
god bless you coach. i grew up just a few houses down from the meyer family alomg with many other kid's in the neigbor hood , back in the earlier 70's, he would alway's show us a few pointers when we would play basketball at the reynol'd house across from his home, he would say kind word's to us, encouage us, buy us ice cream, let us mow the lawn for him, i remember every christmas, ray and marge would invite me in their home for hot choclate as i was selling christmas wreaths for cub scouts, the would just buy one, but two wreaths, and they would always give me a few extra bucks for myself, what a wonderful family man. i went by the house the other day, it has been up for sale for a while, but the exterior is still "BLUE". whoever buys that house will most likely change the color, but i will never forget it. steven salzman.
steven salzman
March 21, 2006
I am a native Chicagoan but have lived in California for many years. In 1979? the Demons came to play San Diego State. I had a chance to talk to Coach Ray. I was impressed by how vibrant and friendly he was. Since then I have always viewed him with such respect and admiration
Michael Isono
March 21, 2006
Dear Meyer Family:
. . . Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted.
So may the great comforter be with you in your time of sorrow.
--class of '99
K. Floyd
March 21, 2006
Thank you Coach for granting me an interview for a class when I was in college. You took the time to answer all my questions about basketball, coaching and DePaul. I have never forgotten that experience. Thank you for that 15 minute interview and thank you for the memeories you have given ALL basketball fans.
alex
March 21, 2006
Coach:
Thanks for all the wonderful memories. You were a beautiful person. Heaven is now a better place.
Rob Forsyth
March 21, 2006
I feel so honored to have known Coach. I went out to camp one summer afternoon to help Kay and Toni with canteen and ended up being out there for 4 more summers. It was a pleasure to help Coach with camp. He loved camp and made sure that everyone there enjoyed it as much as he did. I have a lot wonderful memories and stories that will be a part of me forever. Thank you Coach and God bless you.
Bonnie Zienkiewicz
March 21, 2006
We could not have asked for a better man to represent Chicago basketball. You will never be forgotten, Coach. Thanks.
Michael
March 21, 2006
As a young coach of high school basketball Coach Ray Meyer was one of my idols in coaching styles and I used much of his philosophy - I wish to extend my condolences to his family as well as my thank you for his having been such a great role model for we coaches and for the "game" as he was one its super statesman'.
David Breault.
March 21, 2006
With Deepest Sympathy for the Meyer and Butterfield Families. In the few years we knew grandson John Butterfield we learned a geat deal about what a wonderful man that "Coach" truly was. All of Yorkville High School has your family in our thoughts and prayers.
David Schmelzle
March 21, 2006
To The Ray Meyer Family:
It all started when my Dad graduated from DePaul in 1930. Then our families had the privilege of growing up together at St. Cathrine of Siena. Summers at Three Lakes, where everyone was treated like neighbors. This was before "tubbing," the Coach and Tom took the extra time to teach us all water sking. It does get better, when my son shared the Three Lakes experince, likewise. God bless all.
Pat Maloney
March 21, 2006
You found a way to be part of so many lives. Thank you Coach.
henry schumann
March 21, 2006
Rest in peace, Coach. My summers at your camp are some of my very best memories. Thanks for teaching me how to pick and roll, and for making sure that I fell off while tubing on the lake. I'll never forget your kindness or your hilarious on-court criticisms. It was a pleasure to know you.
John Scully
March 21, 2006
Dear Meyer Family,
Coach Ray will never be forgotten. He was more than a coach; he was a great man. I'll never forget my father taking me to DePaul practices when I was a little boy and Ray carrying me around on his shoulders. Spending time at his basketball camp with Joey and Tommy in Wisconsin was always something I looked forward to. When my father passed last October, it was Ray who asked to sit with my family before the funeral. Although Ray was in pain, that charismatic smile and personality helped to light up the room. He told stories of my father's playing days and Aguirre's pursuit of his record. In my families darkest hour, Ray was there to help ease the pain. He had always looked after my dad, and I will never forget that. Coach Ray exhibited class and humility throughout his life, and that is what I will remember most about this great man. God Bless.
Adam Carl
March 21, 2006
To the entire Meyer Family. I was saddened to learn of the death of Coach. He has meant so much to so many for so long. I'm honored to have worked with him. I regret that I am not able to be in Chicago for his funeral. I'm working a parish retreat in California and have no way to get there. Please be assured of my prayers and remembrance in Mass on Tuesday. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. His loss is enormous. We lost our Mom in January after 88 years and I have a good idea of your loss. Once again you have my deepest sympathy.
Fr. Bob Gielow, C.M.
212 Custer Street
Lemont, IL 60439
Rev. Robert Gielow
March 21, 2006
God Bless Ray Meyer. I will always remember watching his teams growning up and rooting for them. A great man has passed.
Daniel Blackburn
March 21, 2006
It was an honor to be inducted in the DePaul HOF this year. I was a nervous wreck being a deaf player to meet Coach Ray Meyer the first day of practice. The first thing he said to me was to relax and be yourself. From that day on Coach Ray holds my deepest respect both as a Coach and a man with feelings to make sure that I, as a deaf player, will be on top of things.The Lord made sure that I am to be inducted in the HOF this year, so I with my children can visit Coach Ray for the final visit.When I first arrived at Chicago, I was told that Coach Ray Meyer may not be able to see me because of his physical condition, I was very disappointed. So, I made a pledge to the Lord that if He could make Coach Ray, the man who I love very much well enough to see me and my family Monday morning, I would go to the Church more often...do we have a deal?.My prayer was answered. The minute my family and I walked in your room , I was stunned that he looks the same as he was the greatest Coach I ever had back in the 50's. Coach Ray stood proudly to have our pictures taken. I was in tears when we said good-bye with a hug and kiss. My family was in such a great awe to see a great man in person..a coach with a great big heart towards his players.Now, my family realizes why for years and years how much Coach Ray did for me despite my deafness because without his coaching and guidance, I would probably be a nobody walking aimlessly through life. God Bless You Coach Ray Meyer.
Bill (Moose) Schyman
March 21, 2006
My grandfather and I used to watch the DePaul games together. It is one of my favorite memories of him and I will always remember Coach Meyer walking up and down the sidelines encouraging his team and giving the refs a hard time. I want to thank the Meyer family for those memories.
Meg Zentner
March 21, 2006
To the family of Ray Meyer, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Many years ago I was Joe's teacher at St Catherine's. Being an Army wife, we moved often, but I always followed what DePaul was doing. May God be with all of you during these days of loss. God Speed
Barbara (Hunt) Burke
March 21, 2006
My deepest and sincerest sympathies to the friends and family of "The Coach". I spent 5 summers with Coach Ray in Three Lakes and they forever changed my life. Not only did he teach me the game of basketball, he taught me about the game of life. God Speed Coach Ray, you will be dearly missed, but always in my heart and never forgoten!!
'It's the pick and roll son...not the pick and stand!'
Jason Lohrey
March 21, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Meyer family. It has been a pleasure to meet and to know many of you from Camp. What began as helping my sister out as lifeguard at camp, turned into 8+ years of wonderful memories and opportunities. Coach has taught me more than words can even begin to express... Thanks to Coach--I still can't buy green banana's!!! On one of my grocery store run's for Camp, Coach wanted some banana's--I bought some that were slightly green. At lunch that day, those banana's were sitting at my spot at the table--that is when Coach explained--"Cathy, you never buy green banana's because you might not be around when they turn yellow!!" Thanks for everything Coach. Enjoy being back with Marg.
Kay Coates
March 21, 2006
My deepest sympathy on the loss of Coach Ray. I had the pleasure of meeting him at St. Joseph Hospital
years ago when he came to present Sister DePaul DC with a DePaul jacket.
Linda McBride
March 21, 2006
Coach Ray was/is/will forever be my hero. He showed me the TRUE meaning of character. As a young boy in a small town in Michigan, Coach made me feel 10 feet tall and on top of the world with his kind actions. I will never forget you Coach. For you have helped me in more ways than I could ever have imagined. You ARE the reason I went to DePaul. May God Bless You Coach Ray!!! All of DePaul loves you!!!
Michael Wedeven
March 21, 2006
Tom
Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
Matt McBrien
March 21, 2006
The year was 1979 and I was waiting at O'Hare to board a plane to Ohio with my 6 month old son.
All of a sudden, the place erupted with cheers and shouts of joy as the DePaul basketball team came home, having made it to the final four!
I read everything I could find from then on about the Blue Demons and Coach. Saw as many games as I could. I've been a fan ever since!
Thanks for the memories!
Diane Saunders
March 21, 2006
I remember watching the game in 1980 when an undefeted Depaul team faced Notre Dame in a game to me that will go down in history as one of the best college basketball games ever televised. The game went to two overtimes before Notre Dame prevailed with a 76-74 win. I never cried so hard seeing the Blue Demons lose but I guess I cried harder learning that one of college basketball's best and classiest coaches is gone. My sympathy goes out the Meyer family. He will be missed.
Israel DeLeon
March 21, 2006
To Bink and all of the Meyer family. With one son in college and another leaving in September, I have been memory flooded with De Paul and what was one of the happiest periods of my life. Coach, the Demons and the Dorm are prominent among them. I was privy through some friendships to have heard many wonderful stories of him which played over and over in the papers. I lost my mother last summer and understand well the void created and the healing which surely follows. I pray for him and for all of you.
Lucy Newsome
March 21, 2006
As much as I loved the University of Dayton, I loved watching Mark Aguire and you coach and play us.
Although an opponent, you will never be left behind in my memory.
RIP to you and your family.
Alan
Alan Wardlow
March 21, 2006
Coach, you will always be the greatest. Thanks so much for helping me to grow up at Camp and for allowing me to participate in some great basketball scrimmages after dinner. You, more than anyone, taught me to deal with adversity with a smile and with respect for dame fortune. The last time we met was at UCLA for the 1979 non-conference game. Marge was there and, of course, Joey was there. Your spirit lives forever, as does your wide fame, remarkable achievements, and unmatched warmth and decency.
Barry Schutz
March 21, 2006
My heartfelt condolences and prayers go to the Meyer family on the passing of Coach Ray. I always admired that he was a daily Mass participant and I was blessed to meet this extraordinary man once before a game against Marquette at Alumni Hall. I always followed St. Vincent DePaul University after meeting him, even though I graduated from University of Illinois Chicago Circle. We will all miss him dearly but know he is in a better place now. God Speed, Coach Ray!
Walt Shebet
March 21, 2006
My father grew up with Joey Meyer, went to DePaul Academy with him back in the day. I remember hearing stories about coach and what an incredible man he was. Being notified of his death while at spring training for the White Sox in Tucson was most definately the saddest moment. To see all those around me strucken with such grief for the man who made DePaul what it is today made me realize that I wish my father had introduced me to coach. I am currently a DePaul student and just wanted to say that we students will never forget ya coach. You made this university what it is today, and we appreciate that!!! Thanks for the memories....
Mary Jo Maffei
March 20, 2006
To the "Coach" Meyer Family,
I never met Coach Meyer, but I , like so many thousands of people, "knew" him and his Spirit...he was inspiring to all generations and cultures....Thank you Coach Ray for giving so much back to make this world a better place...I am sure the Lord was waiting at heaven's gate with a Leter of Intent to play and coach for Him".....Paul Levine
Paul Levine
March 20, 2006
Our deepest sympathy to the family of Ray Meyer. He will be missed by many. God Bless.
Richard & Eleanor Kanak
March 20, 2006
Dear Family Of Coach Ray Meyer, Our prayers and thoughts are with you all at this sad time. I had the wonderful opportunity of playing basketball for Coach from 1947-1951. He taught me all about Basketball and a lot about being a gentleman and good sport when I was young. Now that I'm an Oldtimer his active lifestyle inspired me to just keep going! He was a man who touched so many lives and left us all the better for knowing him. I share my memories of Coach with my family and in that way we can keep him with us for awhile longer. God Bless.
Bob & Marge Kampa
March 20, 2006
Coach - Thanks for all the memories. From camp days in Three Lakes and forever, you are truly loved. I wish your family my sincerce sympathy. You are missed by many.
Mike Parker
March 20, 2006
Never forget ya coach!
Mikey
March 20, 2006
To the Meyer Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. The memories that I have with Coach and all of you at camp are held close to my heart. What was to be a one summer job, turned into 10 years of treasured memories. I thank you for letting me be a part of that. Coach was a special man. He took me in, taught me many lessons about life, and helped me become the person I am today. To me he wasn't a Coach of basketball, but a Coach of life. Thank you for sharing him!
Toni, Steve, Cara & Kylee Swendson
swennyt@hotmail.com
Toni Coates~Swendson
March 20, 2006
As a transplant from the music school (playing the overgrown fiddle as Mike McCormick called it) to the training room, I got the opportunity to know the best of what DePaul had to offer. I was able to work up at camp with Coach Ray watching him drive the boat like an F-1 driver, navigate the pitch black darkness from the courts to the coaches housing much faster than I could see, but most of all I remember a family at DePaul that is forever with me. Something, through great people, that has helped me become the person I am today. Thank you for that coach. Tell Doc Hamilton I miss him. Joey & Barbara, thank you for your family's help and guidance through DePaul and God Bless in this time of passing and fond rememberance.
Eric Ingram
March 20, 2006
I never had the pleasure of meeting Ray Meyer but always admired him so very, very much. The world was made better for him being in it.
Sonja Reddick
March 20, 2006
Coach Ray was such a great influence on me I became a basketball coach. I have the best memories of camp, season tickets at both the barn and Horizon. He was and always be my idol.
Howard Binder
March 20, 2006
My family's thoughts and prayers go out to the coach and the entire Meyer family. The coach was a friend to my Grandfather Arthur and made a point to stop by his induction to the Depaul Sports Hall of fame when he was 91 year old. He was an inspiration and created a coaching and family atmosphere in at Depaul and in college basketball that will live on forever. We will all miss Coach Meyer.
Matt McGivern
March 20, 2006
I moved away from Chicago 31 years ago, but I always followed Ray and DePaul B-Ball... my dad was a '49 grad....
Nelson Warnell
March 20, 2006
COACH YOU WERE THE GREATEST.
My deepest sympathy to the Meyer family and DePaul University.
A great Human Being has left our lives, but will never be forgotten.
GOD BLESS HIM
DePaul in the mid fifties, WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN BY ME.
Bob Finnerty
March 20, 2006
Dear Meyer Family,
I was saddened to hear of Coach Ray's passing. I felt very proud and privileged to have known and met him, and was a PEMajor at DPU, who transferred in from Loyola University. Coach Ray and Frank McGrath helped steer me through the application and interview process. I had worked as a lifeguard for the CPD at North Ave.beach, where I first met Coach McGrath, who introduced me to Coach as a cousin of ND BB teammate and college roommate, Tom Wukovits.
Anyway, I came to DePaul, and became one of the DePaul family. Though I never played basketball, Coach was always willing to talk and help me out. Tommy and Bucko were classmates, and I went to all the home games, came to the office the next day and asked an endless array of questions, trying to pick up some things you don't read about in books.
Later, after graduating in 1968, I kept coming back with my season tickets to watch the next edition of DPU players that included Joey and a guy named Bruno.
Still later, I took my kids to see an exhibition game at Holy Cross HS, where the fans were invited to meet with the players and coaches after the game. My boys went out onto the floor and stage to collect some autographs. I followed to collect my boys, and found my six year old sitting on Coach Ray's lap! He called to me and said, "Hey Jack, is this your kid?" He was enjoying the moment, with that big smile on his face! What a MAN!
I spent 38 years in the coaching profession and have never met anyone who loved his involvement as much as Coach Ray!
I know that you stopped coaching the Demons in 1984, Coach, and now are starting a new career coaching the Angels. God bless you in this new endeavor, and I understand that the referees you encounter from this date will be much better and will operate at a higher level. PEACE!
Jack Bolger, DePaul 1968
Jack Bolger
March 20, 2006
We'll miss you Ray!
Benedicte & Matthew Doran
March 20, 2006
My son went to Ray's basketball camp in Wisconsin when he was young and always felt this was a special place with a special person. As a parent he was always teaching and caring for the education of our children. A great citizen.
Bruce Sauter
March 20, 2006
I attended Ray's camp in 1978 and 1979. In 1979, I had an asthma attack as night was falling. I told a counselor I needed some help ( a doctor or medicine or both). The counselor said he'd be right back as he went for help. Five minutes later "Dr. Ray Meyer" appeared! He gave me some Benadryl and sat with me for an hour and a half until I felt stable. He could've called a doctor but instead, he handled it himself. I can't imagine another person of that stature helping someone he didn't even know, but that was just the norm for Ray Meyer. Thanks for all the tremendous moments Coach, you will always be The Greatest!
Dave Z
March 20, 2006
The Meyer family-
My deepest sympathy for your loss of your loved one.
I have been a Depaul basketball fan ever since 1981. My older brother and i would watch all of the games on WGN.
In 1994 i attended a game at the rosemont horizon; senior Kleinschmidt's blue demons vs. freshman Iverson's Hoyas; Blue Demons won. After my nephew and i left our seats in the second row to leave, i noticed the legendary "the coach" signing off from doing radio. Well i approached him wearing my Depaul jacket and a 3 inch gotee on my chin, i looked like a "blue demon". After asking his bodyguards for permission to get my picture taken with him i had my nephew take a picture of me with Ray.
What a nice man he was, i simply loved him, i will miss him very much, i would like to send an attachment of my picture taken with him but i don't see how that could be done.
Sincerely ,Andy B. of Galesburg, Illinois.
Andy Blake
March 20, 2006
To the Family of Coach Ray Meyer,
I was one of thousands who adored the Coach, both professionally and
personally. His talents, his grace,
his kindness, his devotion to team
and family, his sense of humor, his
warmth and great memory....the list
of his attributes are never ending...all made him a man to be
revered and cherished.
We shared a birthday time - both
Saggitarius - and would send one
another fun notes. As busy as he
was, he always took the time to respond and to remember.
I got to know him well, when he became a member of our celebrity committe for the Special Olympics
Chicago. And as busy as he was, he made time to participate in whatever
events he could...showing our athletes the same love and devotion he did for his family.
Many have sung his praises and many
more will do so now and in the future. I just wanted it known that
I had the privilege and pleasure of being a member of his fan club and
a pen pal...and someone who got to
share a little of his time.
He will be with me always, in spirit
and in deed, for he was a quality
soul and I shall try to share his gifts of goodness with others as
he always did with me.
Goethe once wrote "Life is the
childhood of our immortality."
If so, we will all meet again in a place of beauty, happiness and peace.
Barbara Lee Cohen
March 20, 2006
thanks for all the great moments coach!!!!!!!!!!!
Asad Kazmi
March 20, 2006
Meyer family:
My dad passed away suddenly in Feb '86. Coach was nice enough to come to his wake. My dad was a big fan of Depauls going back to the Alumni Hall days. Also John McCann
(SP), former ticket Mgr at Depauls,is a great friend of our family.... We all fell in love with the BLUE DEMONS and the Coach!!We were honored to have him pay respects to our dad back in '86!!
My brother Tom and I were fortunate to go to the camp in Wisconsin 5 years in a row in late 60's. From Coach taking us skiing on lake, to watching his dog climb up ladder at lake to go down slide, to having coach do mail call in dining hall- GREAT MEMORIES!!! We will cherish always.
Thanks for letting Coach be part of our lives. I am sure the turn out today will "knock your socks off." Happy to know Marge and Ray are back together!!!
God Bless!!!
Mike Faucher and Faucher family
Mike Faucher
March 20, 2006
My condolences go out to the Meyer family. Coach Meyer was born the same year as my late father. My father George who was close to the ND basketball program during the Johnny Dee era...always spoke fondly about Coach Meyer. A class act and as others have said he was Chicago Basketball. God Bless you Coach may you rest in peace.
Tom Garvey
March 20, 2006
I extend my deepest sympathy and prayers to Coach Ray's family, whom he loved so dearly, to his former players and other DePaul associates and to his many, many friends. Those of us fans who received the Coach's handwritten responses to our letters feel particularly blessed by his generosity. Coach Ray and his smile will never be forgotten.
Sincerely,
Marge Carroll
Margaret Carroll
March 20, 2006
Some of my fondest memories are of Coach Ray and watching Blue Demon basketball on WGN. The great matchups in the early 80's against the likes of St. Johns, Notre Dame, and Georgetown come to mind. But what comes to mind most is the fatherly figure of Ray Meyer patrolling courtside and directing the troops. Thank you for the all the fond memories!
Kasum
March 20, 2006
Ray Meyer was Depaul, Not unlike "the Old Barn". I attended The De- Academy in Early 60's And Had the honor to Watch Couch in action At Alumni Hall, He always made one welcome,Corkey, Joey and Family God Bless, My Prayers go with you......Academy 62, JK.....
Jim Kendrigan
March 20, 2006
Dear Meyer Family, my late husband John Fink worked at DePaul for many years, and so we all got to know the coach and watched many games.My family and I express our Sympathy to all,especially to Joe and Barbara . My best wishes. Alice Fink
ALICE FINK
March 20, 2006
To the entire Meyer family,
My deepest sympathy for the passing of this wonderful man. I never had the pleasure of meeting Coach Meyer, but have always admired the way he conducted himself. He will be missed.
Karla Waage
March 20, 2006
Dear Meyer Family,
I want you all to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through your challenge of losing such a special man. Coach Ray touched my heart and I am so blessed to have known him and to have played for him. I had the pleasure and honor of spending 2 summers at camp and being a part of the Blue Demon program for 2 years. In that time there are 3 things that stand out for me: Coach's ability to spot and exploit the weakness of an opponent, his ability to get his points across with great intensity, yet never use a single cuss word, and his devotion to daily mass, communion, and the rosary. His life has inspired me to try and emulate those things in my life today as a family man, a school counselor and a high school basketball coach.
My DePaul memories are treasured and dear to me.
Sincerely,
Emmett McGovern
St. Patrick High School--1975
DePaul Blue Demon 1975-1977
Emmett McGovern
March 20, 2006
Dear Barb: Please know that you're in my thoughts during this sad time. A father's love is unequal to any other. How blessed you are to have had your Dad for so many years. Fondly, Celeste Lang
Celeste Lang
March 20, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Meyer family today and always. "Coach" was, and always will be the man we wish someday we could become. God rest his soul and keep him with his beloved Marge for all eternity.
Chuck Kopoulos
March 20, 2006
Dear Tom, Joey and the Meyer Family: My sincerest sympathy in the passing of "Coach".
As a young official trying to progress, he gave me my 1st Division I Basketball game, DePaul vs. St. Joe of Renselear, IN. My most memorable game was DePaul vs. UCLA with Mark Agguire and Terry Cummings and their team mates. (a Blowout and an unhappy Larry Brown). My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of celebrating the life of a great husband, father and "Coach".\
Sincerely,
Phil Robinson
Phil Robinson
March 20, 2006
Dear Coach,
I am sad to know you're gone, but I find solace in knowing that you are reunited with your beloved Marge.
I covered Sports for the Pioneer Press in Arlington Heights for a brief time and you were by far one of my most memorable interviews.
I was very inexperienced and nervous, and you dispelled all of my fear. You took two whole hours out of your day just to talk to me!
After the story ran, I received a hand-written letter from you addressed to "Sweet Sara."
Coach, you reminded me of all the important things in life and I will never forget that as long as I live.
I only knew you for a short while, but it might as well have been a lifetime.
Thank you for being you...you will be sadly missed and remembered fondly.
Sara Willingham
Arlington Hts Post 1998-2000
Sara Willingham
March 20, 2006
Raymond J. Meyer and Bill Shay were the best coaches because they could win with mediocre players. May they both rest in peace....R.J. Bendig, Niles Renaissance.
Raymond J. Bendig
March 20, 2006
As a young man growing up in Skokie and Morton Grove, I used to follow Loyola and DePaul BB, closely on TV. I even got to see a few games at Alumni Hall and the Chicago Stadium. I couldn't study engineering at either, so I went to school at Urbana-Champaign, which incidently has a decent Mens BB program.
I well remember the coach's gap tooth smile and ocassional frown when things weren't going his way.
I finally got to meet him, shake his hand and thank him for the memories at a Bears game at old Soldier Field several years ago.
Larry Ziemba
March 20, 2006
Sharing Your Lost
"Thou art my hope, O lord God..."
Psalm 71:5
To the family of Ray Meyer.
As you put your trust in the Lord to see you through this time, may you find assurance in His Word, strength in His presence, and comfort in His love.
With Deepest Sympathy
Linda McGowan
March 20, 2006
Dear Joey and the Meyer family,
I knew your father for 21 years. He was one of my best friends. This was one of the saddest weekends of my life and I am very sorry for your loss. Coach was without question the most decent human being that I ever had the good fortune to meet. I loved him very much and am going to miss him terribly. Take Care.
Daniel G. Titus
Daniel Titus
March 20, 2006
See ya, Ray! I love ya now and I loved ya then. I will remember you always and you still watch everygame thru a bobblehead that i take out of the box for every game on TV! My condolences to the Meyer family and friends as well!
Rich
Richard Jessup
March 20, 2006
What a warm person, not to mention a legendary DePaul fixture. I lived right down the street from Alumni Hall and used to walk through it on my way to the el stop. Very often I'd run into Ray. It was just folksy to say, "Hey, Coach, how ya doin' today?" and he'd flash one of his trademark smiles. We'd exchange a little small talk; he was never too busy, nor too-self-important to take the time to respond. So many of us were fortunate to have been affected by him in so many ways - what a wonderful legacy.
Susan B
March 20, 2006
Even though I did not personally meet Coach Ray, he made us all feel like part of his team and family. He always brought his A Game as a coach, mentor, and father figure. Throughout my 45 years as a P.E.Teacher and coach, I have been inspired by Coach Ray. My sympathy goes out to the Meyer Family.
Wilfred Wright Lawson Y & Belding Ele.School
Wilfred Wright
March 20, 2006
Dear Meyer Family,
My deepest condolences on the passing of an amazing man. From as early as I can remember, Coach Ray, the Meyer family, and DePaul basketball have always been part of my life. Whether it was hearing stories from my Dad about playing for Coach Ray, sitting on Coach Ray's lap for hours at the annual NBA dinner, visiting my brother at Coach Ray's camp, attending DePaul practices and games when Joey was coaching DePaul, traveling to Cincinnati for my first NCAA tournament, and playing against Niles West and Tom, there have been many wonderful memories. We all know Coach Ray's accolades on the basketball court, but more important, he was a wondeful man. Although my Dad played for him almost fifty years ago, Coach Ray was always there to lend a helping hand, give advice, and be a true "Coach" in the game of life, which my family will always be grateful for. When my father passed away this year, there was Coach Ray, only as he could be, meeting with my family before the funeral, putting smiles on our faces, telling stories, and bringing joy at a time of great pain, eventhough he was in failing health and uncomfortable himself. This is who he was and why we were all so lucky to have known him. Coach always thought about the other person first. He was a truly honest, genuine, and caring person. He will be deeply missed, but never ever forgotten. Coach, RIP.
Josh Carl
March 20, 2006
As a DePaul dance team member it was always an honor to have Ray Meyer attend the games. My condolences go out to his family and all those that knew him he is in my prayers.
Darci Rzewnicki
March 20, 2006
What a great person! Having all older brothers who attended Depaul in the late 70's, I was at a ton of games when I was a kid.
One day, we were at a game early and the coach was sitting in a roped-off section and I tried to get his autograph. The usher said I couldn't, but when Ray saw that, he motioned to have me come right over.
He was truly everyone's grandfather!
John J
March 20, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Meyer family. My grade school basketball coaches used to take me to DePaul games where we would sit near or behind the bench, getting a close view of Coach Ray in action. I also attending the basketball camp at Three Lakes twice in the early 70's (where I learned what "bug juice" was). These events were the highlights of my youth. Coach you will be missed by many, thanks.
Lew Winslow
March 20, 2006
To the family of the one and only "Coach". Thank you for sharing him with so many of us. What bountiful blessings his presence brought to so many. Being the daugher of a "Blue Demons" fanatic I will always cherish and treasure so many wonderful memories that Coach brought to our world. No matter who you were Coach always made you feel special and he was glad to see you. Fond memories of Alumni Hall games when I was a kid...to sitting center court for the final four in Utah, dancing with Coach at my brothers wedding, having him speak at a school function for my kids, letting my son ride shot gun in his golf cart at his camp, watching he and Marge tease each other with such endearing love......these memories will live forever in our hearts. Our family was honored to have known Coach Ray Meyer. Rest in peace dear Coach. Heaven became even sweeter when you entered through the gates.
Linda (Fagan) Emmerich
March 20, 2006
To The Meyer Clan; My sincere condolences on the passing of your truly legendary Dad . I have many great memories of you Dad from the Catholic League Senior Tournaments hosted by Depaul and from all the basketball clinics where "Coach" was the main presentor. I also had the pleasure to talk with him when he was the guest speaker at Baketball Awards Banguets at schools where I coached. Ray and Marge were the best. He was one of a kind and will be forever remembered. Sincerely, Joe Gubbins
Joe Gubbins
March 20, 2006
In Deepest Sympathy: May these few words have some small part in bringing comfort to your heart. Assuring you that day by day kind thoughts and wishes go your way.
Rosa Reyes
March 20, 2006
My condolences to the Meyer family on the loss of "Coach" He was truly one of us in every sense of the word. Thanks for the memories of DePaul basketball and being an example to all of us. Al Unger
Allen Unger
March 20, 2006
Dear Meyer Family:
It was my honor and privilege to meet "Coach Ray" just twice in my life. My late father Robert Mann, was treasurer for the Red Cloud Athletic Fund for many years and first introduced me to him at the annual Red Cloud Banquet. For a celebrity of his stature, he made me feel special. His smile and affability are two traits I most remember. But just as important were his devotion to his family, faith and charity. Whenever you asked, he was there and that tells volumes about him.
I consider myself fortunate and lucky that I had the pleasure twice to meet the man who symbolized what is good in the human spirit. The many memories of "Coach Ray" could fill a book bigger than "War and Peace".
When we lost our father we were comforted by many family and friends. The recollections were at times funny and moving. However, the memories stay with you your entire life.
I hope at this time, these thoughts will help you through these difficult times.
Thank you for sharing "Coach Ray" with such a large, extended family.
Dave Mann
Dave Mann
March 20, 2006
As a kid, I attended his basktball camp in 1980. I vividly remember that he was always around the kids at camp. He ate breakfast,lunch, and dinner with us every day. He hung around at night to watch the movies with us in the mess hall, and even watched all the pick up games at night even after drills were done for day always providing pointers and teaching. He loved the game of basketball. He was not only a great coach, but an even greater human being. We'll miss you COACH!
Frank Marmo
March 20, 2006
Ray is also an affiliate of the Congregation of the Mission, Vincentian Fathers. He was a very spiritual person. May he rest in peace.
Rev Martin Culligan, C.M.
March 20, 2006
DEAR MEYER FAMILY ME AND MY BROTHER GREW UP ON DEPAUL BASKETBALL IN THE EARLY 80S AND LOVED COACH AS EVERYBODY CALLED HIM HE WILL BE TRUELY MISSED.
WARREN GILLETTE
March 20, 2006
cris D'andrea
March 20, 2006
You are THE COACH - wish we could have met.
Aaron Cohen
March 20, 2006
Over 25 years ago we met when I coordinated charity events. You always helped and attended, sometimes with your Marge. Over the years we talked and met for lunch a few times. When I received your 2005 Christmas letter & saw you were moving to Addolorata - so close to me - I called to see if I could leave you a message & then you were on the phone with your "Hi Bethie" - I was so happy to hear your usual great, smiling voice! We spoke often & a few weeks ago we made plans for you to meet my grandson Aaron & have lunch. Sadly it didn't happen...& now I'm saying goodbye to you here. I can't be with you on Tuesday (I'm an election judge..) but we will be at St. Vincent's today. My heart has lost a little piece Friday. God bless you Coach...he has already blessed us with you all these years.
Beth Shaffer
Wheeling IL
Beth Shaffer
March 20, 2006
Ray Meyer(Coach) was The Best on and off the court. I will truly miss him.
Ronald Sobieszczyk(Sobie) 1952-56
Ronald Sobieszczyk
March 20, 2006
To The Family of Ray "Coach" Meyer,
Your father and you have touched our lives in so many ways. He was a blessed treasure, as is his family. Wonderful memories of great experiences with all of you will never be forgotten. Thinking of him joining Marge "up there" reminds us of them being at the Seminary Restaurant after many of the basketball games or at Alumni Hall where they both shared many words of wisdom.
Our deepest sympathy for your great loss and the loss to humankind.
Carol & Joe Garsee
Carol & Joe Garsee
March 20, 2006
To The Meyer Family,
As a person who was born and raised in Chicago, is a DePaul grad, and has been a Blue Demons season ticket holder since a time when Coach was calling plays on the sideline, I feel as though I lost MY grandfather. Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss.
Rich Korbas
March 20, 2006
Coach, I'll always remember sitting next to you at church every sunday and listing to your great stories. I'll miss you coach
Ron Nasello
March 20, 2006
Thank you for the memories Coach.
Lou & Jane Farina
March 20, 2006
Debbie Dewitz
March 20, 2006
I spent a lot of time in Alumni Hall from 76-80. I was sad to hear of Coach's passing and extend my sympathy to his family. Thanks for sharing your dad with all of us!
-Framps
Pat Frampton
March 20, 2006
The alumni community of Quigley Preparatory Seminary (Chicago) mourns the passing of our brother. Our prayers to his family.
Bill Gaudry
March 19, 2006
Coach,
Thanks for helping my coaching career. Thanks for the times you let me into the gym to sit quietly and watch practice. Thanks for letting me sit behind the visitors bench so I could watch and learn from the opposing coaches. Thanks for all the little tips, like putting up new nets if you were playing a fast breaking team. Thanks for the help in finding assistant coaches. Our condolences to the entire Meyer family.
David Coffey
March 19, 2006
We are blessed to have an autographed photo of you and Marianne in our home. It's a reminder of the many times you and Joe cheered our Chicago Special Olympians in their May Track and Field competition. Yearly we looked forward to seeing you both, along with Keith Magnuson. Know that we will keep you and your family in our prayers. God Bless!
Bob, Mary & Marianne Berger
March 19, 2006
To The Ray Meyer Family,
My sincerest condolences to you at this most difficult time. He was quite a man, a loving husband, father, brother, grandfather and friend to many people. He lived a life worthy of the highest praise. To think about the countless people whose lives he helped to mold to be the persons that they are today and think of how much better the world is for having him in it. He reminds me very much of my own father, who was a wonderful man who couldn't do enough for people. The world needs more role models like your Dad and mine.
He is reunited with your beloved mother Marge and together they will watch over all of you. May you find peace in knowing that.
Claudia Hunter
March 19, 2006
I cannot help but have tears while I read each of the tributes to Coach Ray. Each of us has been so fortunate to have had him in our lives - whether as a family member, a DePaul student or basketball player, a college basketball fan, a Chicago area resident or for that matter, anyone who read about him or saw him on the sidelines. He was a wonderful example of kindness, love, teaching, pride and fairness. We will miss you Coach Ray.
M. Sensendorf
March 19, 2006
It is with sadness that I received the news of Ray's passing. I knew him to be a gentle, kind man who was a great basketball coach. He loved his players and did the best for them.
I also know he was a very religious man for whom the rosary was an important prayer.
May he rest in peace. May the Lord give his family peace and consolation at this difficult time.
Fr. Paul
Paul Golden, C.M.
March 19, 2006
Dear Meyer Family,You had one the finest,kindest human beings in the world.I Met Coach at his grand-daughters graduation with me a
ELK GROVE HS IN 1981.Thank you for the great teams,so please rest in peace,You will be missed deeply,may God bless you,thank you Coach.sincerley yours Bill Connelly
bill connelly
March 19, 2006
Growing up in Pennsylvania, I became a Ray Meyer and DePaul basketball fan when I was in 6th grade after watching the 1979 Final Four. I would often send letters to Coach and he would respond each and every time. I also had the privilege of attending mass in Coach Meyer's hotel room prior to his last regular season home game against Marquette in 1984. It was a day that I still remember and will never forget. He will be greatly missed. My condolences to the whole Meyer family.
Adrian Kowal
March 19, 2006
Ray thank you for being an inspiration to me. I am a young aspiring basketball coach and I chose my ethics based on the way you lived your life. I have learned alot from you and have enjoyed watching you come onto the floor at a few of the games these last few years. I am 17 years old my 7th and 8th grade boys basketball team i coach lost in the championship today. But your character never doubted or put down. I inspired my kids and told them that they are all great individuals and even better teammates. Thanks for being a great motivator to the youth out their. May your soul rest in peace and may you watch over the DePaul family.
Kody
March 19, 2006
God bless you, Coach, your journey has not ended, it has just begun. May God continue his blessings on your family. Our family would like to extend deepest sympathies to the whole Meyer family.
What can one say about such a great and humble man? I never had the honor of meeting Coach Meyer or his wife, but I did write to him several years back when he was retiring. Coach was kind enough to not only read my letter but respond. I still have that letter along with an autographed photo of him.
I was sad to hear of his passing yet seemed at peace knowing he passed quietly with his loving family around, and on St. Patrick's Day in the middle of March madness.
My husband is a graduate of St. Pat's HS ('78) and DePaul ('82) and my eldest son is a Depaul grad as of 6/06. Your legacy will live on forever in the hearts and minds of us all. When we were at a Depaul Basketball game last year and Coach was honored on the court I remember feeling overwhelmed at seeing him....what a wonderful man. I was honored to be in his mere presence.
What I hope to achieve one day with my heavenly father, you dear Coach, now know face to face.
Art, Bette, Chris & Dave Wilmot
March 19, 2006
Though I'm an Illinois alumn, it was Ray Meyer's DePaul teams that sparked my interest in college basketball during the early '80's.
His well deserved legendary status is only partially due to the civic pride Chicagoans felt as the 'Little School by the L Tracks' rose to national prominence. Indeed, the countless wonderful encounters people have had with him have left an indelible imprint as well.
I'll never forget Brent Musburger's heartfelt tribute/farewell to Ray Meyer after he coached his last game in the 1984 Regional Semis against Wake Forest.
Rest in Peace Coach, we will really miss you.
Sri Raman
March 19, 2006
Coach... thank you for the memories... My life is richer because I knew you... My summers in 3 lakes were far and away some of the greatest memories I have... Your generousity was beyond rapproch... Your humor and love of kids... I try to emulate everyday... God be with you and you join Marge in Heaven... See you there someday...
Dave Nagel
David Nagel
March 19, 2006
Coach,
Appreciate all your efforts to keep DePaul University and DePaul Basketball Team up front with the other major colleges. Gave me the opportunity to play alongside of Ted Furman, Nick Comerford, Ed Cooper and Joe Brody .... Rest In Peace Coach.
Paul J. Cherry - Class of 1950
Professor James J. Cherry Family
Paul J. Cherry
March 19, 2006
I have many cherished memories of Ray Meyer's Boys Camp. During 1947 and 1948 as a camper and during 1957 and 1958 as a life guard and head counsellor. Ray and Marge were there for me.
John Koertner
March 19, 2006
To Coach Meyer's family. Please accept my sympathy in this time of deep sorrow. Depaul University has truly lost a great leader, and ambassador of basketball. May he rest in peace!
Verl Sell
Big Ten Basketball Official
verl sell
March 19, 2006
I could never repay Coach for all he did for me and my family, I am so glad I spent some time with him in January. Camp and DePaul were the greatest times-- I find myself talking about those memories more and more the older I get. Thank you to the entire Meyer family for carrying on the legacy of The Coach. All of you are in our hearts and prayers.
Tom, Kim, and John Nasshan
March 19, 2006
Grace and Bob McAdam
March 19, 2006
Coach,
Your smile and LOVE for the city of Cicago will be truly missed. I'm originaly from Joilet. But duty for my country has taken me to VA.
Lydell Pamplin
March 19, 2006
Coach,
You were amazing.My granfather, Bato Govedarica played on DePaul(1948-1951) with you as the coach and admired you. He was an All-American under you and he thanks you for guiding him. I am his grandson and he always taught me the way the game was supposed to be played. You helped him teach me, and I thank you for that. This was ironic because he passed away March 13, and had his wake the day you passed. My grandfather went up as a player and said, "Hey we need a coach up here." Do me a favor and put together one more of those great teams, one last time up there.
Rest in peace coach
Marko Govedarica
March 19, 2006
Our depest sympathy coach,
May you rest in peace from all of us. Your coaching was great and you taught us all well
Bato,Dorothy,Ted,Marko,Marissa,Alexis, and Theadora Govedarica
March 19, 2006
I was a college student in Naperville from 1979-1982. I remember the following Coach Meyer's teams had...and they class and dignity they displayed. That was a true reflection of their leader. Godspeed, coach.
Bill Reed
March 19, 2006
Coach, thank you for the memories you gave me while I was growing up in Chicago in the 70s and 80s.
Joel.
Joel Perez
March 19, 2006
Coach, for four years you gave me the honor and privilege to run the court for you. You fulfilled my dreams and gave me a life time of memories. More important, thank you for always being there after the playing days were over. You always had a smile on your face and always had time to talk.
God bless you.
Jim Marino
March 19, 2006
To The Meyer Family....
Coach will be missed, but my memories of him and his stories will live forever in my heart. I don't think I missed a home basketball game from 1979 through the next twenty years at least. He was a teacher, a friend, and a role model.
Joe Gurzejk
DePaul Class of '82 and '86 COM and '04 EDU
Joe Gurzejk
March 19, 2006
Mr. Meyer will always be in the hearts of the Sand family. He is truely a legend!
Tom Sand
March 19, 2006
Thanks coach Ray for teaching and showing me that having strength in character is much more important than learning the three-man weave.
Thank you also for sharing your family with all of us.
You Are DePaul!
Paul "bubblemouth" Mazzocco
March 19, 2006
I wrote this morning about some of my fondest memories not only involving Coach but all of my life. In a way I hope they show up and then again I hope he took my words with him. I cry as I write this for he was like a father to me. My prayers are with the Meyer family. Probably only a few of us remember the football players doing training at Ray Meyer's Boys Camp. Binky, although you are sad remember to rejoice for his great and giving life. I hope that I can make up to Chicago Tuesday.
Your Dad's Prayer "The Rosary" will be prayed to honor his example.
Kevin Borowski
Kevin Borowski
March 19, 2006
WHAT A GREAT MAN! I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT ETERNAL SMILE. I REMEMBER SENDING COACH A THANK YOU NOTE AFTER THE DEVASTING LOST TO ST. JOE IN THE NCAA TOURNAMENT.IT SIMPLY STATED HOW PROUD I WAS OF HIS TEAM SUCCESS. I HAD NEVER DONE ANYTHING LIKE THAT BEFORE NOR SINCE. HE ALWAYS MADE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU WERE IMPORTANT EVEN IF YOU NEVER MET HIM IN PERSON. AS A DEPAULIAN (55-57) I GOT TO SEE HIM AT A FEW GAMES AT THE OLD ALUMNI HALL. GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY. I AM GLAD HE CROSSED OUR PATH.
DEACON LEONARD RICHARDSON
March 19, 2006
Coach, you finally won the big one. They'll be giving you your tribute in that arena in the sky.
Bob Evans
March 19, 2006
I grew up in Chicago and when living in Santa Clara California, I went to a basketball game featuring DePaul vs. Santa Clara. Before the game, I didn't know who to cheer for - my new home town team or old home town team. After seeing Coach Meyer come out with the Blue Demons, I new right away I had to cheer for DePaul. He was one of a kind and will be missed. God bless Ray and the Meyer family.
Bob Dockery
March 19, 2006
To Tom, Joe, Bucky & Tom Butterfield, and the rest of the Ray Meyer family our condolences.
Who can ever forget Coach & Marge at our De Paul Academy games at Alumni Hall on Friday night's. Can still see the two of them sitting there and watching us play for the Academy. Then all the games we would go to and watch De Paul University play at Alumni Hall. All the times you ate dinner at the Roma with your other coaches. You were a Great Husband, Father, Famliy man and Coach. God Rest your soul Coach, God Bless. May the Good Lord always hold you in the Palm of his hands.
Roger Mc Gill
Class of '61
De Paul Academy
Roger & Cathy Mc Gill
March 19, 2006
My brother and I went to Coach's camp first as "campers" and then as "counselors" in the early 80's. Coach was more than that, he cared about how we as kids would become men later in life. He always had a quick wit and all those who attended camp remembers when mail from home was passed out.
I will always remember the morning workouts and drills. More importantly I will remember how we all felt apart of his extended family and that it transcended basketball.
Thanks coach for the memories!!!
Shawn O'Brien
March 19, 2006
I went to Coach Meyer's basketball camp in 1984 in Wisconsin. As a lifelong DePaul fan, it was great to see Coach in person. He was a fine man and will be missed.
Paul Hennessy
March 19, 2006
Coach will be missed. I was lucky enough to have met him once, in 1992, on the court in The Pyramid in Memphis, Tennessee as he was finishing a television interview as DePaul prepared to play the Memphis State Tigers in their first-ever conference game in the Great Midwest. I walked onto the court and asked Coach if he'd autograph his book for me, as I've been a Blue Demon fan since childhood, and he was very nice to me and wrote a personal message in the book. It was an unforgettable moment for me, and I'm sure he had that effect on all he came into contact with. The city of Chicago has lost a great man and college basketball has lost a legend. So long, Coach. See you on the other side...
Ken Hendrix
March 19, 2006
I had the privilege of covering Coach Meyer and the Blue Demons for the DePaulia for three years in the 1970s, just when the program started to turn the corner. Bill Robinzine was the team's star and another example of Coach Meyer's ability to develop players. Andy Pancratz joined the team my junior year, which led to Dave Corzine coming to DePaul the following season.
When I wrote the editorial for the DePaulia congratulating Coach for his 500th win, I thought his career was drawing to a close. Instead, the best part was yet to happen.
In post-game interviews with Al McGuire and Digger Phelps I was struck by how they always made a point of saying something very positive about Coach Meyer. The coverage of Coach Meyer's life in the Chicago papers this weekend shows that Coach was even better at making friends than we was at coaching basketball -- and he was a Hall of Fame coach.
Bob Markowski
March 19, 2006
"Coach", truly a Class Act. May you rest in peace.
Nancy Center
March 19, 2006
Coach Meyer, God made you a great man to teach a lot young meen to be a man, I never met you but all the years of watching work with yours teams. All I can say is thanks and I hope I can be have the man you were
Jeffrey Bailey
March 19, 2006
Coach--May you rest in Peace. Being a basketball junkie, your Demon teams brought me much enjoyment during my youth and into my adult years. May you & coach Al figure it all out from up above. Remember it is the pick & roll, not the pick & stand. God Bless to the Meyer family.
Gino Groom
March 19, 2006
I had the extreme priviledge of working four summers for Coach at his Three Lakes Wisc. summer basketball camp. Hardly a day goes by I don't think of those times. Although I was an average player, Coach treated everyone with equal parts discipline and love. My heart felt condolences go out to Joey, Barb and the entire Meyer family.
Thank you Coach. You did more for me than you will ever know!
Andy Kaptain
March 19, 2006
I had the pleasure to be at a luncheon with the COACH as guest speaker. It was a memorible event being in his company. What a wonderful man. My condolences to the family.
Frank Smetana
March 19, 2006
We'll miss you Ray,Been a dieharded
DePaul fan since 76.Ever since i seen you and your team on a very fuzzy channel 32,I will never forget
you and will bleed DePaul blue forever!
Rick Geffs
March 19, 2006
Tony and Lois were students at DePaul in the 50's.
Lois was a cheerleader for 4 years and once after a game the coach drove me home to Berwyn because I didn't have a ride. He talked with me about his experiences coaching and playing at Notre Dame and Depaul.What a gentleman.
Tony remembers when he visited Marshall Square Boys Club to give out awards to the kids. He was never too proud. God Bless Him and his Family.
Lois and Tony Malcak [Pope]
March 19, 2006
I still remember the stories Coach shared with me, as we drove to some of the toughest neighborhoods in Chicago to see players. No matter where we went he was loved. I remember once we where approached by a group of tough looking guys, as they got closer they recognized it was Coach Ray and there attitudes all changed. They ended up walking with us to the school. He was a lot more than a coach, he transcended basketball. The stories of George and of course the ones of he and Mrs. Marge in there early years will forever bring a smile to my face. (they where hilarious) Thanks Coach for all the memories!
donnie miller
March 19, 2006
August 1961,some 45 years ago at age 15 I rode a train from Chicago to EagleRiver WI to spend two weeks at Coach Ray's camp. Using my paper route and lawn mowing money, $120 to be exact, I joined the countless legions of boys who over the years would travel to northern WI to learn more about the game they loved.
Talk about a "hands-on" approach, coach Ray:
--picked us up at the train stop in a huge truck and drove us to camp
--would assist camp employees at the dining hall
--passed out the daily mail to us campers
--instructed everyone on canoe safty with the warning: anyone caught canoeing across the lake to the girlscout camp would be sent home
--taped ankles/knees and treated blisters
--provided personal instruction to each boy during the morning sessions
--refereed afternoon and early evening games
--ran the projector at nights while we watched DePaul games
--joked that if the good father didn't show up Sunday he'd say mass, I don't have to tell you who served as altar boy come Sunday
Can anyone imagine todays high profile coaches providing a fraction of coach Ray's involvement at their summer camps?
Even at age 15 you realized this was a special man. A man whose family came first, and who treated every boy, whether from the small farm towns or the inner city, like a son. A man of commitment: 46yrs to his wife Marge, 42yrs to his employer--DePaul University*
and a lifelong commitment to the game he loved and to helping young boys play it.
As Mike Spellman writes: He was a husband, a father, a grandpa, a legend....but most of all, he was simply "Coach".
If there wasn't one already, Heaven now has a basketball camp with a gap tooth coach.
* Although it is the largest Catholic University in the country according to Coach Ray DePaul will always be "the little school under the L tracks"
william carlson
March 19, 2006
Coach, you will not be forgotten! Fellow Chicagoans and others alike will always remember you as DePaul's legendary head coach who brought glory and pride to DePaul's basketball program!
Richard Kwok
March 19, 2006
Coach, thanks for the memories of the 70's and 80's. You always brought dignity to the Game and served as an example for all on how to live as a Catholic gentleman. Rest in Peace and be with God.
Jerry and Kathy OMeara Magnuson
March 19, 2006
Thanks for the memories and life lessons. OVA SHOLAM, you are now in heaven with the other greats. Don't let "Juck" coach all the games !!! Rest in peace Coach.
stuart hodesh
March 19, 2006
Thank you Coach for your great contribution to college basketball. I was sad to learn of your death but felt joy in remembering, your wife, and your great teams. Thank you
Bo White
March 19, 2006
He loved everyone but most of all he loved kids. Having attended his basketball camp in the early '60s, I've always known that the Guy upstairs threw away the mold when he made Ray Meyer. There won't be another like him.
Jeff Sand
March 19, 2006
My condolences to the Ray Meyer family. My first introduction to Ray Meyer was through my father, Greg True of St. Edward HS in Elgin. Ray and Greg were not only great coaches but were also great friends. I went into coaching basketball as well and there was not a day in practice that we did not do the "Mikan Drill" for which Coach Meyer himself was responsible. "Keep going, make or miss. Left side, right side." Take it easy on any of those refs you run into up above, COACH!
Terry True
March 19, 2006
THANKS COACH!
George Ciszewski, Class of 1970
March 19, 2006
A MAN WHO LOVED HIS FAMILY, HIS ALMA MATER(NOTRE DAME) , AND HIS JOB AT DEPAUL. HE WAS A LIFETIME COACH. SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE SHOWED THE HIGHLIGHTS OF HIS TEAM MAKING THE FINAL FOUR IN 1979 THAT NIGHT. I WILL NEVER FORGET HIS KINDNESS HE ALWAYS SHOULD PEOPLE ,EVEN AFTER TOUGH WINS. HE EVEN CAME TO POUGHKEEPSIE FOR A DIGGER PHELPS ROAST AT MARIST COLLEGE. HIS BASKETBALL CAMP WAS TRULY AN INSTITUTION. MAY THE MEMORIES CARRY ON OF A UNIQUE INDIVIDUAL.
RICHARD MCHUGH
March 19, 2006
As a native Chicagoan I remember watching Ray Meyer coaching Mikan, Feirisel, Govedericka, Aguire, Cummings etc. Ray Meyer is with Kup, Mike Royko, Jack Brickhouse, Al McGuire, Sid Luckman, Harry Caray, Bishop Bernard Shield, George Mikan and many others talking hoops.
Lenny Rubenstein
Indianapolis, IN
Lenny Rubenstein
March 19, 2006
Several years ago, when I wa waiting at the Hillside Drivers Exam place to get the results of a written test, I saw Coach Meyers come out of one of the offices with another emplyee. Having recognized him, I quietly walked over to him and shook his hand. He was pleasantly surprised that I, being a woman, knew who he was. I told him anyone who loved The Blue Demons would know him. We chatted a few minutes, I got his autograph and he was on his way. There was nothing phony about him, he was glad to chat for a moment.
cheryl miller
March 19, 2006
Thanks for all the great memories. You will be missed. God bless you and your family.
Michael Alto
March 19, 2006
there will never be another one like him. thanx for all the memories, growing up in chicago. so many... ray meyer was a class act all the way.
ray daniels
March 19, 2006
A GREAT FAMILY MAN, A GREAT COACH AND A GREAT TEACHER. 1980 I SAW HIM COACH IN MADISON SQUARE GARDEN IN NYC VS. WAGNER COACHED BY P.J. CARLESIMO. IT WAS A TOUGH VICTORY. COACH MET FANS AFTER THE GAME AND SIGNED AUTOGRAPHS. A YEAR LATER HE WAS AT MARIST COLLEGE IN POUGHKEEPSIE FOR A DIGGER PHELPS ROAST. WHEN HE MADE THE FINAL FOUR ALL OF AMERICA WAS GLAD. IT WAS SHOWN ON SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE. HIS BASKETBALL CAMP I HEAR WAS LEGENDARY. WE SHALL MISS HIM.HE CERTAINLY LOVED NOTRE DAME FOOTBALL. I CERTAINLY LEARNED BASKETBALL FROM HIM. HOPEFULLY OTHERS WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO.
RICHARD MCHUGH
March 19, 2006
Thnaks for everything Coach
John Hartmann
March 19, 2006
TWO MEN ARE CALLED COACH IN MY HOUSE MIKE DITKA AND RAY MEYER!!!
JIM NAYLON
March 19, 2006
THANKS COACH.....REST IN PEACE
Jeff Mamola
March 19, 2006
You will be missed dearly
Keith Lambert
March 19, 2006
I attended Ray's summer camp in Wisconsin in 1957. Ray was smart, caring,and genuine.He really shared himself and made us feel special. The man touched me deeply and made me a better person. Thanks, Ray. I love you.
Larry Biggam
March 19, 2006
Thank you, Ray, for making basketball the great game that it is today.
George Spink
March 19, 2006
I grew up in Milwaukee in the 60's, rooting for Marquette and Al McGuire into the 70's, and ended up attending Marquette. I will never forget the great rivalry between DePaul and Marquette and the battles between McGuire and Meyer. And now they are both gone, but they both have left their mark on college basketball and the lives they touched. I'm sure they're up there together again, swapping stories about the good old days. I miss those days, and I miss those games. It's what made college basketball what it is today. And I'm glad I was there to see it. They were giants in their profession, men among men.
Thomas Watson
March 19, 2006
Thanks for the wonderful memories of the great teams you had over the years. May the Lord richly bless your family.
Anita Brugger
March 19, 2006
Prayers are with the family. I met Coach Meyer at a game at the old Rosemont Horizon. as a young boy, just learning the game of basketball. Coach Meyer impressed me, and, while I was not a very good player his camp made me a better player.
Branden Sellers
March 19, 2006
You will be greatly missed!!!.
Shawn Flickinger
March 19, 2006
Everything DePaul Blue Demon begins and ends with Ray Meyer. May your spirit and legacy now carry the team!
Katherine A
March 19, 2006
With deepest sympathy. I attended Coach's B-B camp in 1962 & graduated Marian Central in Woodstock class of "64". He is sorely missed.
Mike Niska
March 19, 2006
John Czarnecki
March 19, 2006
My daddy loves basketball and when I went to coach ray's house a few years ago and met coach ray, I knew why.
Caroline Baldwin
March 19, 2006
I attended Coach Ray's basketball camp in Wisconsin in 1984 when I was 14 years old. He always had time for us. He would sit down and tell us stories about life and his time with DePaul and Notre Dame basketball. I remember being so amazed.
To date, one of the most fascinating things that I can tell my kids and, hopefully, my grandchildren, is that I learned the pick and roll from Ray Meyer. He taught me how to play "O"-ffense.
While attending the camp, Ray and his sons made us all feel like one of the family. Ray Meyer touched so many lives, even mine.
Michael DeFranco
March 19, 2006
My prayers with you and the Meyer family. Thanks for a great ride throughout the years.
Scott Schneider
March 19, 2006
To the family of the " the COACH
I graduated from DePaul in 1951 and
knew the Coach during those day.
He was a parishoner of Saint Cecilia.
You belong in HEAVEN
John Guercio
March 19, 2006
thanks,ray. you were one of god's best.
father bill peterson
March 19, 2006
Coach and my father were team mates at Notre Dame which enabled me the extreme privilege to have known him all my life. Spending summers at Ray Meyer's Boys Camp have always been some of the fondest memories of my life. I like so many others can say he was more than "The Coach" but closer to a second father to us. Coach was a tremendous role model. I remember he and his wife Marge would start every morning they could by attending Mass in the little chapel at camp. He reverently knelt in the back pew he held the rosary in his hands as he would silently form the words of the rosary on his lips. The routine would continue followed by breafast cooked by the onery Agnes, morning drills, and lunch with mail call. Coach would stand up and with the best flick of the wrist distribute mail to the entire mess hall. Coach could get those letters sail to the furthest corner. Oh, no one can forget that fun loving smile of his when he would notice a letter sent from a girl friend. Coach would pause and hold it to his nose and it seemed they were always perfumed as he described it and would embarrass the recipient with the title of "lover boy".
I remember Coach teaching me to water ski on Little Fork lake and then how to never stop learning by his example. The last time I visited Coach in his office at DePaul we talked about family and shared pictures. Then Coach noticed that his word of the day calender displayed montage. He never stopped learning and since that time I have tried to learn a word of day from his example.
Coach, I still have the one of the red hearts that the Notre Dame student body displayed at a basketball game. It simply said "I Love Ray".
We always will.
Kevin and Michele Borowski
March 19, 2006
Ryan Sell
March 19, 2006
to the meyer family,my wife pat and I had many visits with the coach in his elk grove office,he was great to visit with,a very nice man he saw us off to our trip to Ireland last year he loved to visit dan and pat dale
daniel dale
March 19, 2006
Tom Noonan
March 19, 2006
My parents attended DePaul and played basketball. My mother was one of the first to play coed sports. My father, Robert W. Sand, was captain of the team in 1937. He knew Ray from playing against him at Notre Dame and subsequently at pick up games around Chicago. He was always an idol in our house.
Bill Sand
March 19, 2006
To: The Family Of "Coach" Ray
I am saddened to hear about the loss of a true iconic legend. A lot of people toss that word "legend" around loosely. But in this case it was justified. I too am an alum of St. Patrick High School. Class of '95. I am a neighbor of the Coach & remember seeing him on two very distinct occasions. The first was back in school at a pep rally & the second was when I moved into the neighborhood what would have been many years later. Each time he had that priceless smile on his face. Even when he told me from his own mouth about the aches & pains he was having. That is the kind of man he was. Everybody loved the Coach. He was everyone's Coach. A "Coach" of life if you will. God's Blessings.
Joe Tyska
March 19, 2006
What a great person and a great coach and a great person, we need more like him to lead our great young persons into the future. We need more people like coach Meyer.
Richard Turnquist
March 19, 2006
I had admired the Coach for years. And, when I finally had the opportunity to sit down and talk with him, a greater basketball mind and gentleman never existed.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Special thoughts to Joe and Barb.
If I may paraphrase a quote that I think is appropriate, 'Most people come to a University to better themself, a rare few end up bettering the University. Coach Ray was one of those few'.
Dennis @ Diane (DZ) (Costantini) India
March 19, 2006
Coach,
You are missed, but your life continues to make an impact through the persons you've encountered through the years. We are fortunate to have known you.
David Brown
March 18, 2006
Mr. Meyer was special.
I know on Friday, an Angel went to
Heaven. Remember Meyer Family, you all now have an Angel on your shoulder. If you want to talk with Ray, you know where to look!!!!!!
JUDY HOWARD
March 18, 2006
Friday was a sad day. Not just for College basketball, but for all coaches at the college level. A great person, who understood what it means to be a college coach. A man who approached everyone with class.
A coaching legend has gone on to the eternal court, where you always win, and never lose.
Good bye Ray Meyer
Daniel
Daniel Lingenfelter
March 18, 2006
Thanks for the memories Coach. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tom and Alyssa Kupka
March 18, 2006
Thanks, Coach, for all the great memories of the DePaul-Dayton games down through the years. You personified all the best in college sports and as a human being. We'll all miss you.
Dave Griesmeyer
March 18, 2006
We met the COACH over 60 years ago when my brother, Sam, played for DePaul. We have many fond memories of the COACH. He was a true inspiration to all, a true gentleman. Our deepest condolences to the whole family.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Joe & Violet (Vukovich) Brdecka
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer and DePaul were the reason I fell in love with college basketball - probably starting with Corzine and Co. I never met a more honest and inspiring gentleman with a love for the game and players like no other. How rare it is in this era of megabuck contracts and monster egos to find a coach with the staying power, humility and loyalty that 'Coach' had. We will miss him dearly.
Rafael 'Riff' Coven
March 18, 2006
To the greatest coach of all times, i say job well done.
charles anderson
March 18, 2006
I met Ray Meyer more than 50 years ago when I was sports editor of the DePaulia and he was then a young coach. We stayed in touch over all these years until he took a turn for the worse a couple of months ago. What is so great about Coach is that so many of his players kept touch with him for years--maybe decades---after they graduated. He was more than a coach; a mentor, friend and advisor to hundreds of young men. I am privileged to have known him, and offer warmest wishes to his family.
Joe Cappo DePaul '57
Joe Cappo
March 18, 2006
After one of the first round defeats in the NCAA championships in the early '80s, Coach Meyer was interviewed on TV as he walked off the court. His best free shooter Skip ("Money") Dillard had missed two free throws, and DePaul lost by one point. Coach Meyer's comment? "Tomorrow's Sunday." What a truly beautiful man.
Scott Foster
March 18, 2006
Over the years I had the great fortune to meet and talk a little with Coach and every time we'd meet he treated me as if I were his best friend in the world, an experience shared by all who met him. My condolences to all the Meyer family. Here's to his long and successful life.
Dan Dillon
March 18, 2006
Condolences to the Meyer Family. Coach Meyer was Chicago and was the original "Coach" before Ditka came to town. Coach Meyer, have fun in Heaven
Shan Afridi
March 18, 2006
I had the great honor of knowing the "Coach" from '50 thru '59 as a graduate from DPA and DPU as well as an Andy Frain Usher @ Alumni Hall. In every contact, he was a role model that earned respect. RIP- Coach Meyer!
Jerry Van Lancker
March 18, 2006
Thanks, to a Chicago hero.
David Kaiser
March 18, 2006
My sympathies to the Meyer family. My thanks to Ray in heaven for providing a constant example of what good sportsmanship is all about.
Amy S
March 18, 2006
Coach Meyer gave me wonderful memories. Especially, when his team went to the Final Four. He was an Icon in Chicago and I for one am going to miss him. Goodbye Coach, I know you will be watching all of us and hoping for winning seasons.
Rich Husch
March 18, 2006
I extend my deepest sympathy to Coach Ray Meyer's family and to his legions of friends. Please count me among his many grateful DePaul basketball fans and pen pals. Coach Ray always took the time to answer my letters. I'll miss his graceful penmanship. We can only hope his generous spirit will remain with us.
Marge Carroll
Margaret Carroll
March 18, 2006
1972-73 i played on the freshman team at west leyden high school for jerry wainwright. that summer i went to coach meyer's camp in wisconsin. he asked what my name was and said, " you know wilson if you moved any slower you would be going backward." at the end of 2 weeks his whole family had me going forward. thank you all.
robert wilson
March 18, 2006
Memories.....How about De Paul basketball at Alumni Hall 1975 -1980. This is what it's all about! If you were lucky enough to get in that place to see De Paul play Notre Dame you saw some of the best basketball. Coach, thanks for those great, great memories as I will never ever forget them. "We are De Paul".
Ron Lenzi Jr
March 18, 2006
My condolences to the entire Meyer family. You can be proud of your dad and grandfather exhibiting to the world the fine examples of honesty, caring, sincerity and selflessness...a true gentleman and wonderful inspiration to all. I had the pleasure of knowing your dad (my uncle Sam Vukovich played for DePaul) and "breaking bread" as he shared our family name's day (Slava) dinner on many occasions. Just knowing he would attend brought great smiles and pleasure to my grandmother, Andja, as she prepared the dinner until her passing at the age of 94.The COACH will remain always in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers to all of you at this most difficult time.
Carol Brdecka
March 18, 2006
Depaul 65 to 72. Never missed a game in that time. Watched Tommy and Joey. Sat in the stands with Dee Dee and Bucko. How lucky all of Chicago was to have shared him with you. Thank you.
Fred Sherman
March 18, 2006
We have lost one of the great ones.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the whole Meyer family at this difficult time. Patty and Dick
Ratcliff, Tom, Katie and David
Patty Ratcliff
March 18, 2006
In 1979 I was in Lawrence Ks. for the Regional finals when Notre Dame played Depaul. When it became obvious at the last minute of the game that N.D. was going to win, Coach Meyer walked over to the N.D. bench and began shaking hands with the Irish players and congratulating them and wishing them well in the next round. It was one of the classiest acts I have ever seen on the court and with no disrepect to his own players but rather showing them now to loose gracefully, and also showing his great love and respect for his alma mater. Later I heard him give a lecture at Notre Dame and reminded him of the incident and he assured me that it was meant to encourage the Irish to win it all.
John Moreland
March 18, 2006
As a kid growing up in South Bend, in the late '50s-early '60s, my Dad took me basketball games in the old ND Fieldhouse, a then-raucous old barn that was a wonderful place to see games.
Whenever DePaul visited ND, I'll always remember my Dad proudly pointing across the court to Ray Meyer, telling me, "that's DePaul's coach ... we were classmates at Notre Dame".
God Bless those two old Domers (ND '38) ... along with 2 of Coach Meyer's ND teammates, John O'Connor and Paul Nowak ... and of course, God Bless the wonderful Meyer family, and, DePaul University.
Don Hickey
March 18, 2006
I was never big enought for basketball, but my uncle took me to the Stadium when George Mikan and Dick Triptow played. They, the Depaul team and Coach Meyer showed me what guts and perseverance can do. Thanks a lot Coach and God rest.
John Aquino
March 18, 2006
We have lost a man who represented everything that made college basketball the great game that it is. And this from a St. Joe's (PA) grad who will always feel that victory over DePaul in the NCAA's was one of the torrnaments biggest upsets and the greatest victory in HAWK basketball history.
Coach Meyer personified the little guy in this game which is now all to much dominated by the big schools and conferences. I truly hope and wish his memory be kept alive as an inspiration to all playing the game -- especially those little private schools he represented.
Tears came to my eyes when I read Mr. Downeys' fitting tribute this morning in the Hartford Courant. Coach, all college basketball fans will miss you!
Kevin Kenzenkovic
March 18, 2006
I stayed at Ray's basketball camp up in Three Lakes, Wisconsin during 1990-92 and was offered a teaching assistant job up there but I declined, something I regret. Ray was a tough teacher, but he knew the game so well and my skills improved considerably. He even took kids out water tubing with his boat and tried to dump them in water! Those were some happy days. I will miss Ray immensely.
George Neurauter
March 18, 2006
My condolences to the Meyer family. Rest in Peace Ray.
Evan Derman
March 18, 2006
Coach Meyer was a great man to everyone. I worked in the press for many years and he always made the time for you. He was a genuine soul, kind to me and the people I worked with, and a real pleasure to work with in every sense.
Chauncey Kupferschmid
March 18, 2006
Thanks for the memories coach!!
mike wellov
March 18, 2006
I remember basketball in Chicago before Michael Jordan. It was Ray Meyer and DePaul. Thank you Ray
Andy Zimmer
March 18, 2006
Back in 1975 (I believe) a couple of friends and I followed DePaul down to Greensboro for their 1st NCAA trip in years. After a particularly galling 3-OT loss to VMI, we went to the party and got to meet Coach. Even though the Demons lost because of some shoddy officiating (every DePaul starter fouled out before 1 VMI guy did), he never had anything bad to say. He was ALWAYS a gracious man, no matter what. The world was a better place because of him. Rest in peace, Coach.
Gary Urbikas
March 18, 2006
I am a big Chicago sports fan, but Ray and DePaul basketball was my first love. I grew up in the inner city and am a PhD student. I graduated from DePaul and thank Ray for showing me that college can be reality for an inner city kid. Rest in peace....go Blue Demons.
Christopher Brown
March 18, 2006
My dad was on Ray Meyer's team during the 1944-45 season, and we've enjoyed following Coach throughout the years. When dad turned 75, Ray sent him a beautiful congratulatory note. What a gentleman! God bless you, Coach. We are all better for having known you.
Susan Brody
March 18, 2006
I worked with Ray Meyer in the Athletic Dept. at DePaul from 1983-84, he was so personable and kind to everyone all the time, his energy and positive fun outlook on life was contagious and always put a smile on your face for the working day. One day as I was walking down DePaul's hall in Alumni Hall he picked me up into his arms and carried me down the hallway saying how he could carry "Two-Ton Tessie" but I was only 130 lbs. then and 5'8". We laughed together and he always loved to tease me. He was someone of whom you could never forget, he was definitely that one-in-a-million kind of man, for so many fine reasons. He is a legend to all who knew him. You could not help but love him, Rest in Peace Coach Ray.
Tess Butler
Mackinac Island, MI
Theresa Butler
March 18, 2006
As a DePaul alum (LA&S '99) I was able to see the legacy of Coach Ray every day for 5 years.
However, my favorite Coach Ray memories, are as an alum. I was a DePaul season ticket holder for the 2003-2004 year and I noticed that after the games, when most people had gone, Coach Ray would be wheeled down by his assistant through the concourse area at Allstate Arena.
Several of us guys would wait around to see Coach Ray and he'd always greet you with a "hey pal or hey buddy" and would shake your hand and even answer a question or two about the game.
It was always a thrill to see and talk to Coach Ray and simply such a nice gesture that he would take the time to talk to the regular guys.
Coach, we'll miss you but never forget you.
Charles Johnson
March 18, 2006
I moved to Chicago 1n 1978 and fell in love with DePaul basketball and their grandfatherly coach. I caught Blue Demon fever and became a season ticket holder. I was in St. Louis for the Regionals, I had the honor of meeting Marge, and I got choked up like a lot of people did at Ray's last game. I moved to CA for 7 years but still watched DePaul games on TV. I moved back to Chicago and introduced my 2 boys to DePaul basketball. They are now 15 & 11 and are still big fans. They carry their homemade DePaul and DeDunk signs to the games. I was so happy last year when they had the thrill of seeing the "Coach" closeup at a game. We will always be DePaul fans and we will always remember and love Ray Meyer and his wonderful family. Rest in peace, Coach. This world is truly going to miss you.
micky johnson
March 18, 2006
While I love Michael Jordan, Ray Meyer will always be THE figure in Chicago sports. I'm a Loyola grad but always revered Coach Meyer.
Aaron Meis
March 18, 2006
I had the priviledge of serving Coach Meyer as a student manager from 1968-72. I have hundreds of treasured memories. He made everyone feel part of the team, including the managers. After the last game of my senior year he yelled to me as I was helping clean up Alumni Hall. "Phil, what are we going to do without you?" It made quite an impression on me. Be appreciative of everyone. Thanks for the lessons and inspiration Coach.
Philip Gutsell
March 18, 2006
For the many years that I lived in Illinois I always enjoyed watching DePaul Baketball games especially with Ray Meyer as the coach. He will be greatly missed by everyone. My deepest condolences to the Meyer Family.
Mary Alice Hoff
March 18, 2006
I grew up a HUGE Depaul basketball because my grandparents were HUGE Depaul fans. My grandmother was the same age as Ray Meyer and she passed away a week ago. I find it ironic that my grandmother who was the HUGE Depaul fan and HUGE Ray Meyer fan passed away within a week of him. My grandparents had a summer home up in Three Lakes Wisconsin, where Ray held his basketball camp for years, where we went every summer. Because of having the summer home in Three Lakes my grandparents got to know Ray and would take us (my parents,siblings, and cousins) to go see him at his camp every summer. He was always very nice to us and would take time to visit with us. I have fond memories of those visits to Ray's camp as well as watching Depaul basketball games in person and on T.V. with my grandparents. The Coach was a class act and will be sorely missed. He was and will always be Depaul basketball!
Dan Eiden
March 18, 2006
My encounter with Coach Meyer-he came to my hometown (Romeoville,IL) to speak at our sports banquet at St. Andrews School. He gave an inspiring speech telling all of us "You are the one who determines your dreams and remember to work very hard-you will achieve it” I still live by these words from Coach Meyer. God has him now.....
Karen Reeder-Schmidt
March 18, 2006
My fondest memory of Coach, was when I had the opportunity to sing for him at his retirement party at DePaul. I sang "Memories". Which now, is quite ironic because he gave so many to me and my family. On that day, I remember how he was signing autographs, and when my song to him began, he just stopped what he was doing, told everyone in the long line to wait, and just listened. I continued singing right to him, he was smiling the whole time. When the song was over, he got up, hugged me till I thought I would burst, and just kept saying,"thank you!" and "that was beautiful!"over and over. That was one of the most endearing things that I had ever experienced at that stage in my life, and all the while I was thinking, "No Coach, thank you!"
Jasmine L. Haynes-Cummings
Jasmine L. Cummings
March 18, 2006
My deepest sympathy to the family especially Bob Meyer and Kim.
Bob Meyer's former secretary at WHAD
Teri Moxley
March 18, 2006
being a former chicagoan, i cant help but look back at those great teams that ray meyer coached and how they played! with intensity.he will be missed a great deal by everybody.
roland glotzer
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer was respectfully of the man whose basketball career spanned five decades and whose character eclipsed that career.
You will be miss.
Tanua Cole
March 18, 2006
I was in Hinsdale Hospital on the same floor when Coach was there too, only a couple of rooms away in July 2005. And I had the previlage of saying Hi to him and wishing him sppedy recovery. His smile and warmth, I will never forget it and will always cherish it. God bless his soul, he has touched so many in his life time.
Lalit Desai
March 18, 2006
Your life and your legacy will never be forgotten. You truly were a gentleman of the game.
Rick Caprio
March 18, 2006
Ray, for all my 60 years on this earth you will always be DePaul basketball. My Dad went to DePaul High School (long ago when they still had the high school)and then DePaul University, so I grew up watching DePaul and Ray Meyer. We loved you whether you won or lost but you were always the pick of the crop. God Bless You and we'll see you on the other side.
Randy Schneider
March 18, 2006
In my time at National sporting goods shows at Mccormick place in Chicago, Coach Ray Meyer would be at the shows an I always made a point to see him at the show. A very special gentleman on an off the floor.
Duane Miller
March 18, 2006
While neither my son or I are DePaul graduates, we started following DePaul basketball in the late 70's. We have attended games every year since then. Coach Ray was an inspiration to my son who was very young when we started following DePaul basketball, and we were fortunate to be in attendance when the floor was named in his honor. We have lost a GREAT MAN whose memory will live on forever in our hearts.
David Lindberg
March 18, 2006
Coach,
You were a great ambassador for DePaul University, the city of Chicago and the sport of basketball. I can only say thank you for being such a great leader for our little school underneath the L tracks. I am sure that you will enjoy next year's season from a very special view.
Michael E.
March 18, 2006
I grew up watching Ray Meyer in the late 70s and 80s when he had Aguirre. I can still remember when DePaul was #1 and lost to St. Joe's. Whenever I hear the name DePaul I think of Ray Meyer. God Bless Ray!
Rick George
March 18, 2006
Great man, Great Coach. My wife once wrote him and told him I was a big fan. He sent me a Christmas Card later that year with a hand written note! We will miss you Coach!
Jim Gephart
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer lead a long and productive life. Now he is in the Palm of God's hand reaping his reward. Ray was a good man. He was
so helpful at my brother Norbert Heath's funeral in 1991. Norb was
on Ray's basketball team and loved the coach as did everyone else. May he rest in peace.
Joan Fortner
March 18, 2006
I remember being a little girl meeting Coach Meyer at my grandfather's (Coach Bernie Socha) retirement party from St. Gregory in 1990. Coach Meyer was so accomodating for all of us grandkids. It was easy to see how he and my grandfather were such good friends. They both shared personalities that shined with hard work, dedication and sincerity. Last spring I met up with Coach Meyer again at St. Greg's Wall of Fame for my grandfather and was lucky enough to sit with him during dinner.
He is a coach for everyone inside and outside of athletics to be inspired by, and we are all better for having known him. Thanks to his family for sharing him with all of us basketball fans for so many years.
Anastasia Kwit (Socha)
March 18, 2006
Eternal rest granted to you COACH. As a young 19 year old out of St. Patrick's H.S. in Chicago, I was a player on Ray's 44-45 basketball team. I didn't get into may games, but Ray sure taught me how to play the game Back then we didn't spend day and niight trying to hone our basketball skills and as a result we were pretty sloppy players. Ray took the time to work with us and as for me, became a very polished player. But that was the COACH. I don't know how many other coaches would have done that It was some thing I'll never forget RIP
Joe Brody
March 18, 2006
Ray was a great man and an outstanding coach. Under his leadership, DePaul was a national powerhouse in NCAA men's basketball. Since Ray stepped down from coaching, DePaul has yet to achieve the same success after all these years.
Dan Bertholomey
March 18, 2006
My sincere condolences to the Meyer Family, especially Joey and Tom. As a native New Yorker, who grew up in Chicago, I can still remember those great DePaul teams of the 1970's and 80's. When many coaches would have been thinking retirement, Coach Meyer stepped it up a notch and took DePaul Basketball to an international level.
Names like Gary (Music Man) Garland, Clyde Bradshaw, Rod Strickland, Joe Ponseto, Teddy Grubbs, Terry Cummings, Mark Aguirre and countless others who played for Coach. When so many countless colleges across the country would come in and recruit Chicago players; Coach reversed the trend and those players started staying home to play for the great Ray Meyer. Also, Coach started recruiting in New York City and New Jersey and DePaul Basketball has been changed forever.
As a young energetic kid who played on the South Side, Coach Meyer inspired me to be the best not only on the basketball court, but in the classroom as well.
I can see Coach Meyer coaching and teaching the game that he loved and gave his life to, in "Heaven".
Coach thanks for the inspiration but most of all thanks for the memories.
Michael Garner
March 18, 2006
DePaul was right next to my elementary school, Oscar Mayer Elementary, so we were lucky enough to have Coach Meyer as a guest speaker a few times. We loved him! He had a wonderful, grandfatherly manner and a tender heart. He will be missed.
Ellen Morrison
March 18, 2006
My fondest memories are of attending His b-ball camp in the early seventies - Coach's favorite qoutes - "If brains were cement you'd be the Lincoln highway"
Bill Ginsburg
March 18, 2006
Everyone's loving comments are testament to the fact that Coach was a giant of a man. He put "the little school under the L tracks" on the national map. Thanks for all the happy memories, Coach. You are missed by people all around the country.
May God bless and comfort your family.
Carolyn Drake
March 18, 2006
I didn't care much for basketball...I DID care about you. Your grace will be remebered & sorely missed
roby english
March 18, 2006
Living in Chicagoland for 45 years, we greatly enjoyed watching the "Coach" and his teams. He was an inspiration to all.
Our condolences to his family on the loss of this gentle man.
Dick Charlton
March 18, 2006
We miss you coach. The best coach/manager in any sport that Chicago has ever seen. I remember crying after your last game. God bless
Rueben Ingram
March 18, 2006
In 1986 I had Tom Meyer as my gym teacher at Niles West. Co-ed roller skating(remember me, I was always caught in the net)and had most of the football team taking the class. You always laughed at me, but encouraged me to continue to go after the puck. I knew who your father was, as I was a BIG DePaul fan, but I never let on. He instilled in you, to never give up, which you instilled in me, even if meant getting entangled in the net. Thank-you for one of my most fondest high school memories. My condolensences on the passing of your father. He was by far, the best college coach ever.
Lynn Sonkin-Greenbaum
March 18, 2006
I had the wonderful opportunity to attend Coach Meyer's basketball camp in the late 80's. What a great memories! I will always remember tubing and the pick-an-roll drills. "It's a pick-and-roll not a pick-and-STAND" is a line I will never forget! Thanks for the memories!
Andrew Knudsen
March 18, 2006
March 17, 2006
Dear Coach,
Wish we could have had one more conversation, but thanks to Barbara, have kept up on your activities until today.
Now that you have left us here with our memories, we wonder what your game plan will be now that you will have your first athletic director, Paul Mattei, chief advisor Marge,two great centers, George and Eddie Mikan, with Whitey, Ernie, and maybe OLD Bob Neu and Stan Hoover willing to suit up, with Red Kenney on the water bucket, and Stevens to wrap ankles - gee it is surly like old times. Please save a seat on the bench for me. Let us remember the Chicago Stadium games,- maybe we can see a replay of that memorial double header, the wiz kids of Illinois against Northwestern, and Notre Dame DePaul to an overflowing croud.
THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES AND ALL YOUR SUPPORT TO THE MANY WHO HAD THE GOOD LUCK TO PLAY FOR YOU. AN EXPERIENCE NONE OF US WILL EVER FORGET.
Ed Cooper
#45
Edward Cooper
March 18, 2006
Coach,
Some of my fondest memories are spending my summers in Three Lakes, WI at your camp. There are many coaches that have their name on a T-shirt handed out at a camp…but none that are truly the heart and soul of their camp like you. Even after your knee surgery you insisted on running drills every morning, spending hours pulling kids on a tube behind your boat, helping out in the kitchen when needed, throwing mail across the mess hall and even drop kicking basketballs in the hoop from the free throw line!
Anyone that ever attended not only left with a better understanding of the game but an understanding about life. You have touched and shaped many lives.
Thank you Coach, you will be missed.
Charlie Drehmer
March 18, 2006
I never got a chance to play for coach Ray Meyer(I played for his son, Joey Meyer). However, I did get a chance to talk with him. He was extremely knowledgeable,pleasant to be around and a decent man. The "Coach" will be missed.
Chris Henderson
March 18, 2006
ROSALBA SALAZAR
March 18, 2006
Any time I would run into Coach Meyer on campus, he would always say hello and give you a great smile. Ray Meyer was a wonderful teacher, man, coach and human being.Today in heaven their is a new angel, his name is "Coach".
Mike Plueger
March 18, 2006
I saw Mr. Meyer in the hallway while I was on the way to my graduation ceremony. I smiled and said hello, thinking "wow, that's Coach Meyer!!" He stopped without hesitation and held out his hand to extend his congratulations. It was such a thrill, I couldn't wait to tell my family. I remember his kind eyes, bright smile, and a powerful yet gentle energy. Forget the diploma, I thought, that made my day.
Kathleen Connolly
March 18, 2006
Coach lead by example and showed us all how to be a better man.
jim p
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer was a great man. I started following DePaul basketball in 1967 when I was stationed in Chicago for my Navy tour of duty. I dated a girl from DePaul and we used to go to watch DePaul play. After I left Chicago to return home, I was able to keep up with the team through WGN. My son is now a big DePaul fan. It was fabulous to watch him coach. He'll go down in history as one of the greatest. I still love Chicago and my two favorite memories of it are Ray Meyer and Mayor Daley. To me they represented the "Big Shoulders" of the city. God bless both of them. Hopefully now they are talking in heaven.
charles williams
March 18, 2006
I remember going to Alumni Hall w/ my brother 1960 and being introduced to the game by watching Coach Meyer. Thx. Coach you are an institutiion.
david collins
March 18, 2006
Meyer Family-
I am very sorry for your loss. I was extremely fortunate to develop a great relationship with Coach Ray since I was in 6th grade as a young basketball camper at his camp, the place I would return to for 7 years as a camper and coach. There was no better place in the world for me during those summers and I felt so fortunate to be able to know Coach so well and keep in touch through all these years. Such great memories of Coach at camp driving the bus and the speed boat, great stories of his coaching career, and wonderful career advice for me always. A great person, a Hall of Fame coach, my role model, a mentor, and the reason that I got into coaching basketball. I will miss his Christmas cards and our conversations, but his Legacy will remain forever.
Shay Boyle
Loyola University Chicago
Shay Boyle
March 18, 2006
You were a great man I will miss you soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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ooooooooooooooooooooo much
Allie Nadaia
March 18, 2006
I just recently pulled out a picture that I have of "Coach" Ray and myself and just smiled. A flood of memories came back from the 80's and I know that he is still smiling in heaven as he was in my picture. God bless the Meyer Family which includes most of the city of Chicago. My heart has been blest knowing him. Thank you for sharing your Dad with the world.
Annie
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer was Class and Honor. My family loved watching his teams through good times and not. He allowed you to feel apart of DePaul with the care and trust of a Godfather. His passion for family, basketball, teaching and Chicago is a gift we were all lucky to have seen up close. God Bless you Coach Ray and your family as well.
Len Kowalski
March 18, 2006
Dear family of THE coach, Your father and grandfather is at peace. I was lucky enough to have a photo taken about a year ago at St. Gregory High Schools Wall of Fame Celebration. Coach Ray gave wonderful comments about memories of the late Coach Socha of St. Gregory's. Coach was an amazing man and his kindness and talents will always be remembered. He is really celebrating now! Sincerely, Marylyn Osterkorn Ahlfeld
Marylyn Ahlfeld
March 18, 2006
Thanks, Coach, for everything. The world is a little worse off today.
Dave Maves
March 18, 2006
In a cynical sports world, in a world of self-impotance and self-indulgence, a shining star of humanity that will shine forever. Thank you, Coach Ray.
Larry Siegel
March 18, 2006
Coach,
You took the time to teach your players more than just Basketball. That quality could be used more today. Until then.....
Bob Hill
March 18, 2006
As a boy growing up on the south side and playing Basketbaal at Fenger High,there was only one coach I ever wanted to play for...
Ray Meyer. I'm sure the best of the best is now coaching in heaven!
God speed and God Bless you RAY MEYER Gary Jenner
Gary Jenner
March 18, 2006
Above all his coaching success, Ray Meyer was a truly great person. I attended his Basketball Camp as a teenager and wound up going to DePaul University because of my respect for him. He taught us all how to live and compete with fairness and class and he spread happiness everywhere he went. Ray Meyer left us all with many great memories.
Dave Zurkowski
March 18, 2006
I watched the glory years 1975 - 1979, and was a big fan of DePaul and the Blue Demons.
Watching Ray coach that team was awesome.
His contribution to basketball, DePaul and mankind will truly be missed.
God rest his soul and give comfort to his family, close friends, DePaul U, and all who knew Ray Meyer.
Laurette Williams
March 18, 2006
I was fortunate enough to have met "The Coach" once. It was in the Blue Demon room right after DePaul had knocked off NC State in a huge upset. Joey was coaching and Ray was on the radio. Not only did he stop to talk with us, but he was absolutely glowing and shared with us how happy he was for his son. "I'm so happy for him! All those critics said he couldn't coach and he showed them!" Out of all the legendary Chicago sports figures, I would put Ray Meyer right up at the top because he was just so friendly and down to earth. God bless him and Marge.
Gary Olson
March 18, 2006
Thanks Coach for making Chicago an exciting basketball city. Thanks for bringing the Great Talent together from all over the city. And Thanks for being so classy. Our condolences and prayers to the Meyer family.
N. Battung
March 18, 2006
His passion and fire for the game that he loved so much, spilled over to inspire fans like me to follow his teams from year to year, and caused me to believe that if you work hard enough at something you can be a winner. Thanks! Coach Ray
William Atwell
March 18, 2006
Not only one of the greatest gentlemen in the history of sports but one of the
greatest gentlemen in the history of life,period. We'll never forget you Coach and your likes will never be seen again. But what a fine example you set.
God Bless.
James Volkman
March 18, 2006
I was a student at De Paul in the early '80s. Coach always had the time to say hello and ask how my studies were going. I've loved basketball ever since I can remember, and his Blue Demons are a big reason why I have.
Bob Shaffern
March 18, 2006
I attended Depaul in the mid-eighties and you'd always see Coach Ray walking the Lincoln Park campus. We'd shout across the street to the other sidewalk "Hi Coach!" and he'd give a big smile and a wave. A genuinely friendly man who helped transform a university, and will be missed.
Christopher Cerda
March 18, 2006
Coach Ray was a wonderful man. I went to his camp and met him numerous times. It is very sad but he is with his much loved Marge in a happier place.
Jay G
March 18, 2006
I was born in 1966 and until the DePaul teams of the late 1970's, winning seemed out of reach for Chicago teams. Those DePaul teams introduced many local kids of my age to the joy of rooting for a winning team. I remember Ray telling Al that he felt like "he was born again" after the win in Salt Lake City on St. Patrick's Day sent them to the Final Four - what a great memory. Ray's devotion to his family and people in general was evident. This common man deserves all the fanfare he is receiving. Peace.
J.W. Johnson
March 18, 2006
I spent a lot of time with Coach Meyer and it was always a pleasure to be with him. His legacy remains with all those he mentored. Coach Meyer will be missed! (University of Louisville 1957-1961)
Ronald Rubenstein
March 18, 2006
In all my years growing up on the south side, playing Basketball at Fenger High...There was only one coach I wanted to play for...RAY MEYER!! The best is now coaching in heaven!! God speed Ray Meyer!!
Gary Jenner
Gary Jenner
March 18, 2006
Thanks for all the exciting memories, Coach. You were the greatest.
Fran and Bill Johnson
March 18, 2006
I was fortunate to attend Ray's basketball camp for two summers in the mid 60's. Ray and Marge were like our parents, and we loved them. A great man who will be missed by all. So long old friend.
Steve Gaffney
March 18, 2006
Thanks Coach for all the great DePaul memories including the camp in Three Lakes WI. Smashing mail packages, cracking the whip on the tube, and on and on....
Jason Lockefeer
March 18, 2006
great coach whos heart was as big as they get
Patrick Spence
March 18, 2006
want to pay my respects to the coach which everyone in my family loved we are originally from Chicago,we are all sadden by his passing away and sure he's in a better place and at peace God bless his family always.
J.C. Cruz
March 18, 2006
I'm an Arkie Razorback. I remember when Depaul was a powerhouse. I don't remember the players. I remember coach Meyer. So long and thanks.
Dan Kuykendall
March 18, 2006
Ray brought many good times to the college basketball fans of Chicago, but more importantly he brought the kindness, emotion and character of spirit that embodies what we believe Chicago is all about. Ray was truly one of a kind and will be sorely missed...
Gary Hurst
March 18, 2006
Coach once told me at summer camp that if he put my brains inside a bird "the damn thing would fly backwards." This all after I failed to run the pick and roll correctly. He was right, and he showed me the proper way to run it. The next summer he said "you look smart lefty." Thanks coach, I couldn't do it without you.
Patrick Starck
March 18, 2006
Depaul basketball will always be part of my childhood memories .. the great teams and THE COACH!
Nick Urukalo
March 18, 2006
While I consider myself a pretty good writer, I'm totally at a loss for the words to describe what Coach meant to me.
When my youngest son was small, he had a space between his two front teeth. My wife and I used Coach's name to describe his smile.
Our condolences to his family. When God decided to make a basketball coach, he made Ray Meyer.
George Tasker
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer is to Chicago basketball as Mike Ditka is to Chicago football. May he rest in peace.
Beverly Brotski Sloan
March 18, 2006
God Bless you Ray
Greg Baker
March 18, 2006
One of the greatest experiences of my life was spending my summers in Three Lakes, Wisconsin at the Ray Meyer basketball camp. Not only was he a great teacher of the game of basketball, but he was also one of the kindest humans one could ever meet.
John Bonomo
March 18, 2006
please accept our condolences for your loss.
crabtree family
March 18, 2006
Our city and college basketball has lost a legend in Ray Meyer. May the great man rest in peace and my condolences go out to all people in the Meyer family.
Will Dickerson
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer is the epitome for the best of Chicago. He was a true gentleman in an era when DePaul was a leader in Chicago basketball and it was due to Ray Meyer. God bless his family.
James Poulsen
March 18, 2006
I was buying my student tickets in the fall of my freshman year in 1978 at Alumni Hall. It was mid-day and the building was empty. As I walked through the gym I saw the Coach for the first time. He walked up to me and we talked like we were old friends. I can't recall what he said or what we talked about yet it is a memory that I will never forget.
Coach,
God Bless and Thanks.
Gary Noncek
March 18, 2006
God Bless !
James Edward Wilson
March 18, 2006
Coach Ray,
I will never forget the many great weeks i spent up at your camp in wisconsin. I learned a great deal of basketball knowledge from you and enjoyed being around you so much. I will never forget the time you were on your boat and i was on the back tubing in the lake and i fell off and you did not see it nor did the spotter in the boat and you left me out in the middle of the lake. I will miss you Coach Ray!
Patrick Walsh
March 18, 2006
HE WAS A MANS MAN. ALWAYS A SMILE AN YOU FELT YOU WERE HIS BEST FRIEND. HE NEVER FORGOT WHERE HE CAME FROM.
CHARLES STORMY BIDWILL
March 18, 2006
I can still remember going to Coach's drill station at basketball camp up in Wisconsin. Whenever we messed up, he'd say, "If you put your brain in a bird, it'd fly backwards." Needless to say, we all looked up to him.
Marty
March 18, 2006
I grew up on the north side of Chicago watching the Blue Demons. As a kid I alsways looked up to the Coach and the players. He helped put Chicago on the Basketball map and inspired an entire generation of youngsters like myself. Coach will be missed but remembered for all that he has done for this city that I still consider home.
Ray Nails
March 18, 2006
Chicago has lost a giant of a man.His death is the end of an era. He was a true gentleman and I will miss him. My sympathy to his family.
terry baren
March 18, 2006
Thanks for all the wonderful memories and what you did for college basketball.
Scott Brady
March 18, 2006
Thanks Coach Ray
Jamez
March 18, 2006
I had the good fortune to meet Ray a couple times, even to use his Bears tickets once or twice with his son and my friend, Tom. Ray, in person, was ebullient, kind, and larger than life, just like his legacy. As all basketball fans know, Ray was--along with Claire Bee, Phog Allen, Adolph Rupp, Hank Iba and a very few others--responsible for the transition from the simple YMCA basketball game of Jim Naismith's peach baskets, ladders, and cold, empty gymnasiums to the complex and exciting game of graceful giants, multiple offenses and defenses, and packed arenas of many thousands of screaming fans. I extend my sympathies to his family, his thousands of friends, and his millions of fans. Today we mourn but also celebrate the passing of a true icon.
Robert Samuelson
March 18, 2006
I am 62 and a big fan of College Basketball and have been all of my life and the reason is for coaches like Mr Ray Meyer, he was a great coach and a fine human being and will be missed by all.
John Turnbull
March 18, 2006
Hey Ray,Thanks for Influencing a young man by pointing him in thre right direction, Not only in basketball ,but in Life. Your Smile and warmth will always be remembered.
David Ross
March 18, 2006
My condolances to the Meyer family.
Matt Roberts
March 18, 2006
I never met the coach, wish I did. He got it all right - great husband, father, coach and friend! He will be missed.
John McCormack
March 18, 2006
Thanks for the memories, Ray!
Fred Lutter
March 18, 2006
I'll never forget when DePaul finally made it to the Final Four. Al McGuire interviewed Coach. It was so obvious how much he loved Coach Ray and it was clear that Al was happier for Coach than even Coach Meyer was. The great basketball camp in the heavens has one more legend in its midst today. And Marge has her guy "home" at last.
John Nolan
March 18, 2006
He was a man who personified what college basketball was all about. He lived it, breathed it, and gave the city some wonderful memories. Ray, may you rest in peace, and may college hoop fans keep in perspective the real reason why we enjoy not only the season, but March Madness.
Ken Johnson
March 18, 2006
My deepest condolences to all. I went to St. Catherine of Siena grade school ('58) and Siena High School ('62) and have many fond memories of the Meyer family.
Carole Bach Sheehan
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer was a wonderful man who was a role model to everyone. I met him once and was smiling for a week. He will be missed.
Chuck Stepner
March 18, 2006
God Bless you Coach. You were a great teacher of boys and an inspiration to everyone who had the pleasure of meeting you as I did in 1958. Say hello to your old friend, Al McGuire.
Ron LeGrand
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer was a throwback to how college basketball should be done. I had the opportunity to see him in the stands during a game in the late 1990's versus the St. Louis Billikens at the old Alumni Hall. Thanks for the memories
Ruben Terrazas
March 18, 2006
What a sweet man. He once autographed my Notre Dame football program, which I got out this morning. He wrote, "May all your hopes and dreams come true!" My wish for you as well, Coach.
Christine Twist Burke
March 18, 2006
My first real interest in college basketball came watching the late 1970s DePaul teams. I have been hooked ever since. I later worked at a university which had a coach Meyer. I once told him that he could never replace "The Coach" in my mind. I haven't grieved for a non-family member like this since Walter Payton's passing. You will be missed, Coach.
Bruce Thomas
March 18, 2006
The loss of Ray Meyer yesterday far surpassed the on court losses that occured on the Blackburn Court at the U. Of Dayton Arena on St. Patricks Day 2006. Condolences to your family.
John Bettinger
March 18, 2006
My condolencs to the Meyer Family and the DePaul Family. Coach Meyer was a wonderful man who hailed from the Greatest Generation. I appreciate his many kindnesses to me when I was a young man working for the Bulls. He made you feel special when you were just excited about being in his presence. RIP Old Friend.
Mike McClure
March 18, 2006
It has been 34 years since I trained at "Coach's" beautiful summer camp in WIsconsin and played for Tom Meyer at Oak Park High. News of his passing invoked unexpected deep sadness; but, more importantly,broad smiles and pride remembering the man, his personality and how he would accurately "frisbee" each day's mail through the air to each of the campers at lunch time; especially the perfume-scented letters from Binky's girlfriend(s). My deepest condolences to Tom, Joey and the rest of the Meyer family.
Mike Huseby
March 18, 2006
Coach gave me an autograph after he called a DePaul/Louisville game in Freedom Hall in the 1980s. I recall thanking him and calling him a "great man". He smiled sheepishly, and softly said, "no, but thank you". Thank you coach.
mike pepa
March 18, 2006
We need more people like Mr .Meyer who instilled honesty in the college games. Being a Chicago born citizen he will be greatly missed in the Chgoland area and in college coaching circles. ken Gammon
ken gammon
March 18, 2006
I am a Loyola grad but I always cheered for DePaul because of Ray Meyer.
Charles Emery
March 18, 2006
A life that we all should aspire to living.
arthur shearburn
March 18, 2006
Thank you Ray. My love of college basketball partly comes from memories of you and Depaul in the 1970s. And my love of college basketball lead me to my wonderful husband.
You will be missed. I hope you're up there watching this year's tourney with Al.
Judith Warren
March 18, 2006
I can hear the Lord saying to you, "Good job, well done, My son. Walk with Me." Thank you, Coach. The memories will never die.
Ray Hermosillo
March 18, 2006
these words have been taken out of my mouth many times. good bye to dear friend, a gentleman, and loved one. missing you already, frank and darlene federico
frank and darlene federico
March 18, 2006
Thank you Coach Ray - You brought more to the Chicago Stadium Saturday night games than any other basketball coach. Your brand of intensity made your teams proud.
Tom Cullerton
March 18, 2006
Ryan Sell
March 18, 2006
Coach meant more to Chicago than the businessmen and politicians combined. He was the ultimate teacher and person; never to busy to say a kind word to a passerby and always positive and cheery. A true Chicago legend. He will be missed more than any of us know. My condolences to his family, friends and players who had the privilege of spending extended time with him.
Jeffrey Davis
March 18, 2006
One of our fondest memories of Coach was at the 1997 NCAA Championships at Easter Sunday Mass. The church was beyond crowded spilling out into the street, and he preferred standing in the rear of the church rather than cramming into the pews. After Mass, we were joining Coach, Joey, Barb & Brian for brunch. We caught up with Coach at the rear of the church with everyone who attended Mass waiting to shake his hand. The line was tremendously long, yet everyone - parisioners, visitors, players, coaches, media people -waited to shake his hand and say hello to Coach. He happily accommodated everyone. As we approached him, we jokingly introduced ourselves and thanked him for the lovely service. His response was pleased to meet you and when he could get his hard boiled eggs. It was, after all, Easter! Unfortunately for him, the restaurant was not serving hard boiled eggs that day.
We last saw Coach at the Arizona/Illinois game last year, still with the passion for the game still apparent. We believe that if the body would have cooperated, he would have been on the floor coaching right along with Weber and Olson.
Our heartfelt condolances to the family.
The Torres Family
March 18, 2006
Growing up in the NW suburbs, I was a huge Depaul fan, the reason was Coach. Coach Meyer led his life how it was supposed to be led. HE will be missed. Take care coach.
chris mirus
March 18, 2006
THANKS FORE THE MEMORIES COACH!!
VITO CAROSELLI
March 18, 2006
To the family of coach Ray Meyer,
He was the greatest coach of all time. Eternal rest granted upon him oh Lord and may perpetual light shine upon him.
Corinne Smreczak
March 18, 2006
Coach:
You lived a life that embodied everything your alma mater, Notre Dame, stands for and hopes to inspire. We will miss your goodness on this earth.
Jim Langford
March 18, 2006
As a transplanted Chicagoan and former Blue Demon season ticket holder, I mourn the loss of a Hall of Fame coach, a lover of the game, and a great human being.
John Bush
March 18, 2006
A coach with his very own style.
Thanks for the memories
David Schroeder
March 18, 2006
Watched you many years while living in Chicago.....You will be missed....Barb
Barbara Simon
March 18, 2006
Ray loved watching you coach the Blue Demons while I lived in Chicago, till 1997, and your son coaching the team here in Asheville. May GOD watch over you, and let you coach the big team up there. Peter Zalewski
Peter Zalewski
March 18, 2006
Coach: God bless you and your family during this time of mourning. Now you will have a 2nd chance in heaven to match your basketball wits against Al McGuire again!
Alex Karason
March 18, 2006
Coach you are as much of my fond hometown memories as any ONE person can be. Thank you for allowing Chicagoans to cherish and enjoy proud moments with Depaul together. You will live on in my heart.
Rich Gaz
March 18, 2006
Thomas Widgeon Jr.
March 18, 2006
Coach, you are the reason I fell in love with basketball. Some of my most treasured memories are of those many summers I spent with you at your camp by Eagle River. You will be greatly missed and I am happy you get to be reunited with Marge in Heaven. I consider it an honor to have been called an "amalgamated dripball" by you. Thanks and God Bless!
Jerry Jung
March 18, 2006
My brother and I were the first Indiana boys at Ray Meyers b-ball camp. He was quite a character! Chicago and Depaul lost a great one.
Dave Carr
March 18, 2006
Da real coach
Roger Bennett
March 18, 2006
Coach Meyer helped me to dream, showed me how to work, and always had time for me. I have the utmost respect for him and his family. Ray Meyer was far more than a coach!
Thomas Konrady
March 18, 2006
I walk into an office in Wood Dale to drop off a package, and found myself standing face to face with Coach. He extended his hand and said hello and smiled. He didn't know me, but I sure knew him.I stil remember that day.
Don Griffith
March 18, 2006
WE WILL NEVER FORGET SEEING RAY AND HIS MAGNETIC SMILE AT IC CHURCH ON SUNDAYS. GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY.
KERRY,IRELAND
JOHN & MARY GALVIN
March 18, 2006
Coach Meyer the weekend after the Marquette at home in 1972 and under George's picture you told me to go back to Texas work hard and be back to play ball in the Spring. I went to Texas and worked hard but failed to return.
There is a sadness attached with that but nothing has ever compared with our handshake. I rate your handshake right along with Mr. Ben Hogan's.
Randall Hamrick
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer was a legend in Chicago, as well as college basketball. He will truly be missed.
Dave Boyd
March 18, 2006
Our prayers and thoughts are with Ray and his family at this time. Ray was yet another special individual with old school values but also had the vision to move forward. He will be sorely missed.
Neil J. Cacciottolo
The Sunset Media Group.
Neil Cacciottolo
March 18, 2006
His legacy is one of example, teaching not only basketball, but in doing all things in life the right way.
We will never see another Ray Meyer but will hopefully see many who wish to emulate him.
John Flowers
March 18, 2006
Ray Meyer,
My brother Mark and I attended your basketball camp three summers each in the early to mid-80s. This is where we learned to compete, to commit ourselves to basics and fundamentals. Your dominant presence and kindness at the camp -- larger than life -- are the things i remember. You personally taught me to shoot a jump shot, just a young kid with no big time prospects...i was more important to you than prospects.
I can still see you taping an ankle and razzing the rest of us in line to get your training room treatment, "you're a yerk Fenzel!" I can still hear you as the 1:30, 3:30 and 6:30pm games' teams were picked..."fenzel and wenzel...we gotta do something about this one, both of you guys are too ugly to play on the same team."
I learned what it meant to be a true leader by watching you every day during those great summers. I learned what it meant to be a gentleman by seeing you handle one coaching challenge after another. You have one of the largest families in the country because of your unwavering commitment to kids at your basketball camp for nearly fifty years in Three Lakes, WI.
You are the greatest coach in the history of the game and one of the finest people this world has seen. Thanks for everything.
(michael.fenzel@us.army.mil)
LTC Michael Fenzel
March 18, 2006
Classiest guy I've ever seen.
Minesh Patel
March 18, 2006
Some of my fondest memories growing up in Chicago, was watching Coach Meyer, coach and teach, his Depaul players, Mark Aguirre, Terry Cummings, Clyde Bradshaw, Gary Garland, Tyrone Corbin, Rod Strickland...He was a great person, he will be missed.
Lloyd Adams
March 18, 2006
Something I noticed about Ray—and I watched him quite a lot, I was at DePaul in the late 60s-early 70s and ran the newspaper one year—was that when people shook his hand, they never failed to put their arm around his shoulder. This almost always happened! I remember doing the exact same thing when he got off the plane when the team lost their round in the final four. Just a real man, and a great, great leader. I hope he's watching the rest of March madness now, with his wife at his side once more and forever!
Randy Buchik
March 18, 2006
ON BEHALF OF MY 2 CHILDREN IN CHICAGO AND MY ADMIRATION OF THIS GREAT COACH , WE ALL WERE MADE BETTER PEOPLE BY HIS ROLE IN LIFE DICK SPECK..BRIAR CLIFF UNIVERSITY SIOUX CITY IA.
RICHARD SPECK
March 18, 2006
I grew up a couple of miles from Depaul. The Blue Demons were like Chicago's Pro team since the Bulls stunk in the late 70s and early 80s. Ray Meyer will be missed. He was one of Chicago's biggest Icons.
Rest In Peace, Coach.
Abbas
Abbas Rizvi
March 18, 2006
Coach,
Thanks for the memories, your wit, and kind words when needed. DePaul Alumni 1974-1978
John McQuinn
March 18, 2006
One thing that I will always remember about Ray Meyer is that he took losing in the same respect as winning.One of my first lessons about sportmanship
TERRY REDMOND
March 18, 2006
God Bless you and your family. Thanks for the memories!
Glenn Sowizrol
March 18, 2006
Attended DePaul in the 60's and the team won/loss record was not the best, but my fondest basketball memories (NCAA or NBA) are of watching Coach and his team at first in the Barn and then in the new Alumni Hall. May he rest in peace. My condolences to his family.
Jeff Elkins
March 18, 2006
..Thanks for putting Chicago collegiate basketball on the map with Depaul in the Final Four!
Eric Smith
March 18, 2006
God Bless your soul Ray. They broke the mold when they made you.
You are missed by us all. Thank you for blessing us with your being.
Daniel McCarthy
March 18, 2006
Coach Ray,
If there was ever a person who understood how sports can be used to create relationships with people from all walks of life, it was you.
If there was ever a person who understood that we should all be treated equally regardless of race, economic background, or athletic prowess, it was you.
You introduced and understood the importance of utilizing basketball to develop people.
Thank you for showing us how to be a leader. Thank you for showing us how the beauty of working as a team through basketball can bring us together within our urban communities.
Fare thee well, Coach Ray.
Bret Dougherty
Bret Dougherty
March 18, 2006
Coach, I have fond memories of you, as De Paul was the college I wanted to attend when I was a young kid. Going to De Paul, and seeing you on a regular basis on campus would always make my day as you always had time to say hello to anyone that walked by. After graduating, having you hold my niece for a picture, and then signing it a few days later, was also a special moment for me. And finally, I remember you enjoying the yearly Christmas cookies that my mom made. You are sure to be the best Coach in Heaven, and you will also be united with whom I'll call the First Lady of Basketball, Marge. Rest in Peace, Coach Ray, and thanks for all the memories. You made De Paul what it is today!
Tom De Paul Grad of 89
March 18, 2006
Ray was a true gentleman in victory or defeat and because of that he never lost and will always be remembered
gil
March 18, 2006
no job was too big or too small for ray meyer. i went to a scrimmage between northern illinois and depaul in the early 1970s at alumni hall. i saw this guy plugging in the clock to set up the scoreboard. was it a manager? nope. none other than the coach himself. my first, but not my last, look at a class act.
sam cook
March 18, 2006
Coach Ray attracted me to DePaul Basketball, as he was beloved not only in Lincoln Park but around the world.
He was father-like, friendly to all and a decent human being, he will be sorely missed.
He made an impact on all generations.
DePaul and Chicago has lost a great legend
Arnie Sandler
March 18, 2006
Peace Coach!
Class of 1986
Jeff Tatera
March 18, 2006
i remember sitting across the table from Mr. Meyer at the luncheon after my grandmother passed away in 1986. and my brothers attending his basketball camp when i was a kid. he will be greatly missed. he was a great man. R.I.P. Ray Meyer
Felicia Conforti/Grove
March 18, 2006
A man who allowed me to know about DePaul basketball growing up in the northwest suburbs. A man who is just one of the nicest to have known of as a person, coach and inspiration. May you rest in peach Coach. You will always mean a great deal to the Chicagoland area. You were a true gentleman and someone to idolize.
Robb Tavill
March 18, 2006
See ya Coach. You legacy is the lives you touched not the games you won.
David Perdicaris
March 18, 2006
I am not one for e mails, but I had to tell you a story.Eight years ago I was very involved with our mens club at St Tarcissus. I was approached to try and get a sport celebrity to talk to our parishoners. A daunting task as most sport celebrities don't have the time or ask a small fortune for their time. I fthought of Coach Meyer and got his number from a friend.I asked him how much he charges for a speaking engagement and received a figure. Much to my disappointment he asked for a much higher figure. I said Coach we can"t afford that much and he responded, Mike give me what your club can afford. He almost sounded embarrassed when he explained to me he does so many charity appearances, which he does not get reinbursed for and has to make up for it somehow.
We had him the night of April 18,1998 at our auditorium. It was a great night. There was a 60 -90 minute discusssion of his career, a question and answer period and Ray signing autographs and talking to people until everyone had a chance to talk to him.
He could have not been more gracious.
So when people mentioned Ray Meyer the legenday coach I say yes, but what a wonderful human being! Ray is now with his beloved wife Marge watching the NCAA GAMES IN THE BEST SEATS IN THE HOUSE!!
Mike DeMartino
March 17, 2006
what a wonderful human being.the world lost a great man.
kenneth rybarczyk
March 17, 2006
To the family, look to the hills, from which your help will come. You love him, but God loves him best.
shirley bransford
March 17, 2006
A class act is gone. He will be missed by many. My condolences to the the Meyer family.
Kenneth Alexander
March 17, 2006
Coach was always an admirable and steadfast man who stayed his course of helping young men succeed on and off the court. His example helped me succeed as a young coach. Thanks to Coach Meyer.
Howard Bunch
March 17, 2006
Ray you are the best there is .RIP Fan for life MDQ Chicago Il
Marilyn Qualls
March 17, 2006
When we were in Chicago from 1958-1989, Ray's DePaul team was our favorite college team. His coaching style was respectful and
enthusiatic. Thanks for the memories!
Janet Stickney Hawk
March 17, 2006
As a young kid growing up in the Chicago area the one thing I could look forward to was the Blue Demons on television at least once a week. Thank you for giving me something to look forward to.
R.I.P. Coach
Kendall Thomas
March 17, 2006
i wish to extend my condolences to the Meyer Family. As a college basketball fan from Illinois I was also glad to see DePaul's run into the NCAA tourney. Ray will be missed
james groth
March 17, 2006
Our condolences to the Meyer family. Coach was not only a great basketball coach, but more importantly, a wonderful human being. He was a great example to yesterday's and today's youth and taught them many valuable lessons both on and off the court.
Jay and Amy Lee
Jay Lee
March 17, 2006
My prayers go out to the family. I went to Depaul, and would hear wonderful stories about Coach Meyer, he will always be remembered as a legend.
Megan McNear
March 17, 2006
Just seeing your smile on television and seeing how so many faces around you emitted a happiness,love,respect,and success made me think to myself "Hey,this man is someone special."
You will be missed for many reasons. I will miss that smile!
L'Tanya Segal
March 17, 2006
Thanks for the great memories. DePaul has a great basketball tradition because of your passion for the game. Your teams were fun and exciting to watch.
Richard
March 17, 2006
Ray always gave me great support during my tour at Depaul. I had great respect for him and what he was doing for the young men of Depaul. He will be missed.
LTC Ralph Drake USA (Ret)
March 17, 2006
Coach, you'll be missed by everyone whom you touched. Thank you for being a great man, a great teacher, and a great coach.
Gabe Garcia
March 17, 2006
Thanks for being you Ray. We miss you, but your legacy and influence will live on.
Dave Sliepka
March 17, 2006
To the Meyer family our sincere condolences. Rest IN Peace Big Guy.
Robert Woods
March 17, 2006
I'll forever be honored to have had "coach yell at me when I attended his camp back in the early 80's to start playing some defense.
God Bless "Coach", I'm sure marge had her arms wide open to welcome you home.
YOU AE DEPAUL.
Ron Skidmore
March 17, 2006
With 46-years of radio-tv announcing my biggest thrill was being Ray Meyer's radio play-by-play man in his final year of coaching. The COACH, truly one of the finest men you could ever come across. You get to heaven on the shoulders of those you've helped.
Ray entered instantly. Lorn Brown
lorn brown
March 17, 2006
Love ya Coach!
Great quote from the coach: "It's pick and roll son, not pick and stand!!"
Mike (Gravel) Patterson
March 17, 2006
Coach always made this alum proud to be associated with DePaul. He's reunited with Marge. God must have needed a basketball coach.
George Ciesla
March 17, 2006
Mr. Meyer,
You taught me to love te game of basketball. Growing up in Chicago taught me to love 3 teams...the DePaul Blue Demons, Da Bulls and the Cubs. You will be greatly missed. My condolences to the Meyer family.
Sincerely,
Sonya Wimberly-Hawkins
March 17, 2006
Chicago has lost its basketball soul. There will never be another "Coach" He will be defined for generations to come not by wins but by caring, loving, supporting relationships.
I had the pleasure of knowing Coach on a personal and professional level for the past 26 years.
He was genuine. He was transparent.
He was Coach.
May God bless the Meyer family.
Coach, you're home with Marge. May Jesus Christ comfort the Meyer family.
Sincerely
Chuck Swirsky
chuck swirsky
March 17, 2006
Ray, what a great coach you were, and more importantly, a great human being. I remember the great games between DePaul and Notre Dame. What a rivalry. Sold out every time. I attended almost every one of them as a student an alumni. You are and always will be DePaul.
Kip Webb
March 17, 2006
you were a good man,a good father,a good grand father, and a great coach
wayne hatter
March 17, 2006
The measure of man is not his deeds, but rather those he leaves behind. Thanks for leaving us ALL better than you found us Coach.
WE are DePaul
Eric Gossard
March 17, 2006
Ray was the first college coach that I learned about. I remember me & my grandfather watching DePaul basketball together in 1978. Thanks for the memories! Tell my grandfather that I said hi when you see him up there.
Eric Slocik
March 17, 2006
I was so fortunate to have attended Coach Meyer's summer basketball camp for six straight years. I will never forget when I was in my first year, home sick, and waiting to hear from my family. A package finally arrived and Coach found somebody who was more than eager to crush the living day lights out it. So many lessions learned over those precious six years. You are a hero to so many generations and reading the memories already expressed today solidifies your mark on history. God bless you and your family.
Scott Janess
March 17, 2006
Goodbye Coach. You will be missed.
Gordon Garcia
March 17, 2006
Coach--thank you for all the fond memories and taking the time out to meet the fans. We have been truly blessed with a GREAT coach and human being!!!
T Harig
March 17, 2006
I watched you coach when I was a boy and missed your coaching after you retired. God bless you as you are at piece now.
Francis "Sarge" Minkler
March 17, 2006
I worked down the hall from him for three years at DePaul University. He was a great man. His infectious smile and kind words were an inspiration for a young college administrator. Coach, your now up with St. Peter smiling down at the wonderful mark you made in our community. Rest in peace, beloved Coach
George Maniates
March 17, 2006
As a DePaul Alumnus I remember fondly interviewing the Coach for the DePaulia during my senior year. As a Christian, I rejoice that the Lord has called His good and faithful servant home so that he can once again be with Marge and with Our Lord and Savior. With the rest of the DePaul family, I am saddened by the loss of a friend and a kind and gentle man! He will be missed!
Phil Kober
March 17, 2006
A great coach is secondary. He was a great man. May the angels welcome him.
Joe Woith
March 17, 2006
A great coach and a fine gentlemen, college basketball has lost one of its BEST!
Be with God Ray and rest in peace!
Mike Dugan
March 17, 2006
God Bless you, Ray. May you coach in Heaven.
Kevin Hughes
March 17, 2006
I had the good fortune to get to know Ray on several occassions. He was obviously a great coach but he was also one of the most down to earth persons I have met. He was almost surprised when anyone asked for hbis autograph. My sympathies to the family but I know they have great memories of this very talented but sincere person.
Mike Horowitz
Chicago
Michael Horowitz
March 17, 2006
Coach, We will all miss you. Your life is an inspiration for us all and you will always live in our memories.
Mel Borden
March 17, 2006
To the family of a wonderful man, my heart and prayers are with you always. I cared for the coach in Schaumburg and in the short time he was there, I was so inspired by him, and thank him for the wonderful opportunity I had to care for him. He is now in eternal life, watching down on all of us, and I know he is with us always in our hearts. My prayers are with his family and friends always!
Jennifer Jennings
March 17, 2006
A humble man, great teacher. Thanks for all you gave to our city, Coach!
Dave Burman
March 17, 2006
Thanks for the memories coach.
Howard
March 17, 2006
YOU HAVE TOUCHED MANY LIVES DURING YOUR LIFE. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY FOR ALL ETERNITY. YOU WILL BE MISSED.
THOMAS BRANDT
March 17, 2006
As a graduate of both DePaul Academy and DePaul University, I knew Coach Meyer very well. My most memorable contacts came as an Andy Frain Usher @ Alumni Hall. He was always the greatest!!!!!!!
Jerry Van Lancker
March 17, 2006
Our condolenses to the Meyer family.
Ray was a great teacher of men. We are writing for a dear friend Joseph Demkovich who played for Mr. Meyer after he got out of service. He is handicapped now living in Alburqueque but loved hearing about him anytime something was published in the Trib.
Raymond Vavra
March 17, 2006
Good Bye to a Great Coach and even better Human Being-Thanks for the memories.
jim mangone
March 17, 2006
Two great stories about Ray. When he saw a 6'11" George Mikan walking on campus, Ray approached him and said, "Hey kid, you ever play basketball?" George replied, "No." Ray's response, "Well, you do now." And as a 15 yr. old on the southside, watching that incredible Final Four game against the great Larry Bird. What a game. Ray, you are with Marge again.
Mike Klempin
March 17, 2006
My Dad (James McGreevy, Jr.) always told us about playing pick up games with Ray Meyer in the late 1930s. My Dad played BB for St. Phillips and had a scholarship to St. Joe's but ended up going to work to support his family, as many young Irish boys did back then. Rest in peace.
Jeryl Ramp
March 17, 2006
I first got to know Ray Meyer when I was a high school student in 1957 when our basketball team spent two weeks at his Wisconsin camp. He provided a truely memorable experience that led to a life long interest in his many accomplishments. I was a follower and fan of his teams.
Bernie Basgall
March 17, 2006
I grew up watching DePaul, Illinois, Notre Dame, and Bradley.
I loved the guy. RIP.
John Kerr
March 17, 2006
God Bless you in Heaven as on Earth. You will be dearly missed.
Mary Okumura
March 17, 2006
One doesn't have to be a DePaul fan to see the qualities of Mr. Meyer. Great coach, even greater human being. Rest in peace.
Terry Runzler
March 17, 2006
Ray was one of our best. . . as a coach but more importantly, he was one of our greatest role models ever. Over the years, I have missed his smile, his excitemtent for the game and now my heart seems just a little heavier.
God Bless him and his family.
Dan Hanosh
March 17, 2006
Thank-You Coach Meyer for the fond memories of you and your DePaul
teams and players. We'll miss your
smiling face and charm. May your
soul find rest in God's great
eternal love.
Marion Mims
March 17, 2006
You are an icon! God Bless!
Mike Conley
March 17, 2006
This city has lost a great man. He did a lot to help young men become a great man. We had the honor of meeting him at the wound care center and he was the "gentleman" that we admired from afar.
Edward and Elaine Piltz
March 17, 2006
Never having set foot on the DePaul campus, my only connection was the entertainment on TV provided by the talented teams Coach Meyer put together. What I will always remember was how Coach represented DePaul and the city of Chicago with dignity, class, and integrity.
Jim Huster
March 17, 2006
I went to Ray Meyer's basketball camp when I was a high school student in 1986. My fondest memory of the camp was Ray Meyer yelling at me after I made a stupid play. I loved the fact that he knew my name and thought enough of me to be upset when I made the mistake. I taped all of the sessions so when I got home I played the "Coach Meyer yelling at me" tape for everyone!
David Burns
March 17, 2006
Coach - thanks for all the great basketball memories. But, more importantly, thanks for being an honest and first class person.
Jack Meek
March 17, 2006
THANK YOU RAY FOR SHOWING THE NATION OLD SCHOOL BASKETBALL FROM A SMALL INTERCITY COLLEGE CAN DOMINATE AT THE HIGHEST LEVEL. MOST OF ALL FOR SHOWING NOTHING BUT CLASS. YOU ARE DEPAUL BB. MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY
tim ferguson
March 17, 2006
I lived in Arlington Heights from 80-84. I was introduced to college basketball watching Ray Meyer. He will always be part of my fond memories of Chicago
Pete Mazzola
March 17, 2006
Thank you, Coach Ray. Thank you for everything.
Trevor Hembrough
March 17, 2006
Today we lost a great man, may he rest in peace. Go with God coach. We will always remember you with love and admiration.
Ignacio Alvarez
March 17, 2006
Coach Ray,
You brought a lot of joy to the City of Chicago. You made us proud. You were a champion. You were a gentleman. We will always love you, Coach. Thank you for being you.
Alex Bartkus
March 17, 2006
Not an alum but during the 20+ years I lived in the Chicago area I always enjoyed Coach's handling of the team and later his commentary when he was broadcasting. We will all miss him.
Tom Nicholson
March 17, 2006
My memories of "Coach" come from my day's as an alter boy at St. Ceclia Church in Mt Prospect. He always had a few moments for us boys after 7:30 mass. I will never forget that.
DePaul '90
Joseph Holda
March 17, 2006
A True gentlemen and accomplished professional! A credit to the sporting world. His coaching model and people skills are to be admired and copied.
J Larry Kobelt
March 17, 2006
Ray Meyer,
he simply made me love the game of basketball. he will be missed
Larry Nakamura
March 17, 2006
Coach we will miss you!
John Kober
March 17, 2006
Bless you Coach, you were legend.
cliff zeider
March 17, 2006
Dear Ray,
Thank you for giving me hope for humankind. I still have it, in no small part because of you.
Hal
Hal Kearney
March 17, 2006
He is the reason I am addicted to basketball now. I love those old Depaul teams and he genuinely cared for his players. Rest in peace Ray.
MARVIN MILLER
March 17, 2006
R.I.P. Coach Ray.Thanks for all the great years at DePaul.
Mike Rupnow
March 17, 2006
You summed it up best Coach. "I coached for love of the game, not love of the money". It was an honor watching your teams perform while growing up in the Chicago area. Thanks for the memories, Ray!
Frank Kerzic
March 17, 2006
We mourn a great motivator, a great coach, and a great man. DePaul, Chicago and the many young men whose lives he touched will miss him dearly.
James D. McCallum Jr.
March 17, 2006
Great leader. I am an '86 alum. What a great inspiration to all people of all ages.
Len Burman
March 17, 2006
i grew up watching depaul basketball before the bulls championships he brought excitment to chicago he will be always loved and never forgotten
santone hicks
March 17, 2006
Now you can once again roam the sidelines.
ALways thought of you as the grandfather I never had. Thanks for the memories.
And go ahead and yell at the refs while you're roaming those golden sidelines.
Daniel Richter
March 17, 2006
Thank you for many wonderful years, times, and experiences. You will be missed.
David Wulatin
March 17, 2006
What a wonderful man he was, i watched him coach the Blue Demons for many years on WGN TV i never missed a game on tv, what i GREAT coach he was, he will be missed may god bless his friends and family.
Teddy Panagakos
March 17, 2006
Ray Meyer will forever set the standards for moral family values, honorable and attentive coaching impacting a multitude of men's lives----May the Meyer gain strength in seeing the Glory of God as he receives one of his beloved children.
Bill Coogan
March 17, 2006
My introduction to Ray Meyer was the DePaul vs. Notre Dame battles of the 70's and 80's. Always admired him for being such a class act!! A true gentleman and always professional.
Timothy VanDerbosch
March 17, 2006
The Coach was a true gentleman who greatly helped raise DePaul's profile beyond the Midwest not only by his team's successes but by his character. He will be missed.
'1974
jim egan
March 17, 2006
Eddie & Pistol Pete love you always!
Edgar Sweda
March 17, 2006
A great man will be missed, may all of college basketball remember him during this great time of the year.
Mike Kerry
March 17, 2006
he was a great coach. Who love teaching is players how to play the game with love and respect. Coach was also a father figure,to his players. We will miss you very much coach. Now coach is with God and Jesus playing the game of basketball he love to coach. May God bless his family with peace of mind. knowing that he is absent from the body but present with the Lord. (lutherfunches@yahoo.com)
luther funches
March 17, 2006
I now live in Portland Or but there never was a more important team and coach that I followed than DePaul and Ray Meyer.
He had to be the greatest coach in all of College Basketball and the greatest person. I had the privilege of meeting him in person in his locker room. I had a friend of mine who in the 70's was assisant athletic director. We would shoot baskets and talk to Ray. He was such a regular person but an extraordinary coach.
I also got a chance to watch a lot of his practices. That is where you are really a coach not on TV!!!!
My Best to all his family and friends.
Phil Goldman
Philip Goldman
March 17, 2006
Ray Meyer will live long in our memory and hearts. He was not only a great coach, but better yet, a great man. I feel a piece of my history has vanished with his passing. my condolences to the Meyer family. Remember, with your sadness, you can feel pride too!
Sam Sheneman
March 17, 2006
When I was a kid in Rochelle Coach Meyer spoke at our atheletic dinner and my best friend and I signed up and went to coach's camp in Wisconsin. Turned out we were the two youngest guys there and it wasn't pretty. BUT coach was always encouraging and helped us out. I remember him taking me down to his family cottage and spending some one-on-one time with me-he was a great guy with a heart of gold from my experience with him. You and your family are in my prayers.
Tom Morrissey
March 17, 2006
Thank You for giving me the first taste of college basketball, it was great growing up a DePaul Blue Demon fan. I still remember the thrills your teams gave me and that was special. God bless,we will miss you always!
Waldemar "Oreo" Cruz
March 17, 2006
Ray will be missed, he was one of Chicagos Treasures.
Marvin Mayberry
March 17, 2006
You will be greatly missed. Your spirit will forever be at DePaul games. Have a great time with the angels in heaven.
Donna Wensch
March 17, 2006
Ryan Sell
March 17, 2006
G Scott Habermaas
March 17, 2006
If I'm not mistaken his first commencment outing, after retirement, was at St. Tarcissus Church, for the grade school graduating class, 1984, Where Fr. Richardson, Pres. of De Paul U. at the time, lent his services for Sunday Mass and other occasions, remember him walking down the asile with other dignitaries, and appreciating him. I know he's in heaven, perhaps as a master dribbler, or one of the best guards heaven ever had. We'll miss him!
Raymond Schenfeld
March 17, 2006
Thank You Coach for all the wonderful memories you left us. And, I know your beloved wife is waiting for you up in heaven.
Cosme Vivanco
March 17, 2006
LINDA TRACY
March 17, 2006
A great man and a great leader. Loved your life.
Greg Neidballa
March 17, 2006
I have very fond memories of watching the Blue Demons on WGN as a youngster. Thank you for all the wonderful memories. May God comfort the Meyer family in thier time of grief
Stephen
March 17, 2006
GOD BLESS COACH AND FAMILY
herb collazo
March 17, 2006
As a former Thornton High School alum, I've enjoyed recognizing the "coach" from Curtis Watkins (former player) and pre-season DePaul scrimmages at our high school through the Aguirre and Terry Cummings eras and the wonderful disposition he always showed in his commercials and interviews. I believe he was a wonderful human being.
Craige White
March 17, 2006
Coach
Thank you for the memories, You will also be a legend. I had the priviledge to meet you and you were a true gentleman and it was an honor that I will never forgot. May you and Mrs. Meyer walk arm in arm and watch the eternal sunset. I was never good enough to play for you, but you have always and will always be an mentor of mine. You will always live on in my heart. Heaven is now got it's Coach for its team.
I will miss you
Jack
Jack Hillblom
March 17, 2006
Class of 74 and 81.
Thanks to you, De Paul became a national team.
Gerald Czarnecki
March 17, 2006
We have wonderful memories of the Coach, as we were both students at DePaul in the 70's. He was a true inspiration to those around him and will be missed. We extend our sympathies to yuor family.
Tom & Mary Jean Kremer
March 17, 2006
Depaul has never and will never be the same
Jim G
March 17, 2006
Coach Meyer was an inspiration to me in my life. His drive and love of the game made me love basketball and learn to love what I do no matter what it is. He is gone but his legacy lives on in the hearts he won over to DePaul basketball. I never had a connection to the University but he made me love the team and love the game. I learned so much about the game just by watching him work and I still watch the game because of him, and I still root for DePaul because of him. He will always be Coach in my heart and in my life. I am saddened today for his family and the city of Chicago. We will all miss him greatly.
Andrew Kida
March 17, 2006
I was a student at Coach Meyer's camp in Three Lakes for six weeks over two summers in the early 60s, and learned a great deal about both basketball and life by doing so. Ray Meyer was an exemplary human being who has always held a special place in my heart and mind. It is sad to see him go. All the best to Tom, Joey and the rest of the family.
John Zimmermann
March 17, 2006
Grew up loving Ray and Depaul. Part of my love of Chicago sports. One of the early pioneers to focus on local inner-city talent to produce a national power. And what a character! Chicago sports has lost a giant.
stephen reinhold
March 17, 2006
Ray Meyer had my son in camp and did him a world of good.
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